Question

[ROOKIE OF THE YEAR]

Today, when i was walking at a hallway in my college, and i saw a beautiful woman just walked by. It took me awhile to make me want to asked her out. So i decided to take my chances by following in order to make my move.
Here are my problems, i was worried that she might think im a creep or a needy person by doing that because a few seconds after we walked past each other, she knew that i was gonna sort of follow her to talk to her. Well, i think it will be pretty weird to to that anyway and i dont wanna frighten her so i eventually gave up.

Do u guys think that she might think im a creep or i lost an opportunity?

Besides, if she doesnt think im a creep, if i can talk to her, i couldn't come up with a ****y+funny lines like deangelo taught me.

well, any pointers from u successful DJs so i learn about what i can do next time when situations like this happens again?

thanx

 

[diablo]

The best way to talk to someone is by saying "Hi." You can't pre-plan C&F lines, because you never know where the conversation is going to head next. Sure, a strong conversationalist can guide what's being discussed, but what you're saying is that the reason you didn't approach was because you didn't have any C&F routines in place. You don't need them. You simply need to work on initiating that contact. The rest will come in due time; practice makes perfect. How do you plan on ever coming up with anything that's C&F if you never even talk to the chick?

As for whether she thought you were creepy or not, I'd imagine it would be pretty weird if you had some person turn around and start following you everywhere you went without saying a word... if that person turned around and started chatting you up though, there wouldn't be any creepiness about it! For all she knows you forgot something from wherever you were coming from and needed to walk back her direction to go get it...

Good job at least taking some action... now get over your fear and talk to the girls...

 

[So pimp its scary]

I used to think like Adam Sandler : 'Initiating the conversation is half the battle.'

Now, I think of it more like a game... Where initiating the conversation is like offering up a rally serve, if it gets returned, then I play along, if not, its not that I lost, its just that the other person wasn't interested in playing.

 

[wind20mph]

Do you beleive in first love?

If so, this moment is it.

Meaning if you don't make a move, you lost it.

Don't think twice. If you want to do it, the moment you have established a good eye contact, make the approach, be confident.

Its on the DJ Bible, read it again.