Question.

[Ridiculous_Rick]

I know this is already been asked but I've never experienced it myself. I was chillin' at work today and this girl told me that I give off the "I Don't Care About ****." attitude. And personally I think it's a great attribute to have as I don't really care if my "djing" skills are up to par or not. But then she said "That could get you into trouble one day." So my question is should I put on a more serious game face to give people a "better" perception of who I am? Or do you think it maybe wise to just roll with what I do. Cause I have no idea if this is a good thing or a bad thing in when it comes to attracting women or in general life. So I dunno just throw your 2 cents out there and let me know what ya'll think.



Rick.

 

[Grey Fox]

Well if you can to ask, then doesn't that mean you really don't have a "I dont care attitude." if something a girl says can make you come here and ask. Now I have some questions for you...1 does this girl like you, 2 do you hang out together or have begun to bump into each other more often 3 do you find her attractive, 4 if she doesnt like you, are you two at odds a lot 5 is she your boss or does your review at work for raises and such.

Once you let me know this we can better help and assess.

-Grey Fox

 

[Eileen]

I would guess that depends Rick.

If she's brought this to your attention at work I would question if she were referring to work or girls.

If she's simply referring to your personal relationships with people, it's none of her affair.

Perception is reality. If the people you work with think you don't give a piss, you are already in trouble.

 

[Squid]

If she's referring to your work attitude that could be a problem. But if she is referring to your attitude towards women, then I think why change if you are happy the way you are?

 

[xblitz44x]

" Well if you can to ask, then doesn't that mean you really don't have a "I dont care attitude." if something a girl says can make you come here and ask."

lol. I was thinking the same thing. Most likely the girl is impressed by it, and almost envious of it. She said that so that she didn't have to constantly look at the reflection of how much *she* cares about what people think, when she looks at you. It's a way of making her self feel better about not being who she really wants to be. Do your own thing. People's perceptions of you will all be different. You'll run yourself into the ground trying to impress everybody.

 

[Ridiculous_Rick]

Humm..

This is just a girl I sit by once in a while at work. A friend. She's got a boyfriend and all that. But I just bull**** with her and play games. It's not so much my work attitude because I act no different when at work then I do when I'm out of work. As far as my bosses go they can suck one cause I could careless about what they think. They couldn't fire me cause I'm one of the best hard working people at my work. But thanks to everyone who responed to my post.

Stay Real,
Rick.

 

[Grey Fox]

Well she might be getting tired of her boyfriend, or begining to feel an attraction towards you. Of course it could be nothing at all, just keep on keeping on and see what happens.

-Grey Fox