"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Big-J

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Well this will start off with a statement, sometimes when I'm bored and I've got nothing to do (ie. It's night time I can't sleep, and it's raining/snowing/streets are hell out, I mess around with graphics, color schemes of things, sounds, etc... (something I used to do when I was in highschool playing computer games, making different things on free time when I had nothing better to do)

If I by chance were to come up with some new stuff over the next little while for the board (Ie. different color scheme options a few smileys or something *although not over kill like I've seen on a lot of boards*), would coding it in be considered?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Allen would consider your offer, however, it is doubtful anything will come of it. I offered Allen my company's services in branding before the new layout was launched, but Allen never came back to me.
 
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