Question

[VikingKing]

We talk about womens relationships with their fathers. Now what if the girl had a good or ok father, but her mother abused her. What are some down falls about that. What are some signs or things you can expect if you date a woman who's mother abused her.

 

[RangerMIke]

Oh man... this is my ex wife. I'll tell you from my experience this manifests itself in very strange ways. She begins to act like her mother... then gets angry with herself when she does. Since she is a woman, and she is unhappy she blames the man in her life for her own self inspired hate.

It becomes this odd love-hate relationship. Since we have kids, we are still in contact, and she has to let me know when she is taking the kids out of State as a condition of joint custody. She'll go on and on about how she can't stand her mother and how she is dreding the trip.... but she STILL fvcking goes.

She continues to try and get acceptance from her.. even though she says she does not want it. She will change her plans with just a comment from her mother. When her mother walks into a room and says "I just don't like this color... and at the first opportunity she is painting the walls."

In short.... if a woman has a dysfuctional mother, she will herself become dysfuctional, if her father is a weak @ss b!tch like her father was, and refuses to intervene. If a woman has a weak mom, but a strong father, she'll turn out okay, but she will STILL have issues with her mother.

 

[SeymourCake]

She's not the woman you want for the mother of your kids. She will be a replica of her mother. She will treat other women like how her mother treated her.

 

[VikingKing]

She's not the woman you want for the mother of your kids. She will be a replica of her mother. She will treat other women like how her mother treated her.

My mothers mother was an abusive (physically and emotionally) alcoholic and a slvt.

My mom didnt do any of the stuff she told me about. She wasnt perfect, she can get emotionally unstable but i think thats normal.

But her grandparents live with her also. She love her granpa a lot.

 

[VladPatton]

Everyone you'll ever meet in life will have some sort of issue scars from their parents. All you can do is hope the needle is on 1 instead of 10.