"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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oscarxp25

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Three girls I work with invited me out to a club. After talking to guys they told me it was a gay club. The girls said they were going to wait till I got in,


I do not know, it pissed me off. Am I wrong?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't understand why women would want to go to a gay club, but why don't you just play along, try to have a good time (in a heterosexual way), and possibly hook up with one of your female coworkers?
 
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"Gay" clubs are, well uh, gay!! :down:

Say "No" to Hos and Ho-mos!!!
 
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