"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alright so me and this girl have been hanging out a lot, you know, going to get ice cream, watching movies, helpin her with her homework, all that good stuff

Now how do I know, or what signs should I look for that she wants me to be like, "So what exactly are we?" Because I'd really like to take it to the next level with this girl, but I dont wanna fyck anything up by possibly putting her into an akward situation. Is there any ways to get around that? Like how should I approach this
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Pretty much have to step it up... there is no other way.
 
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Well how long has it been going on? If it's been 3 days than I would hold off, but if you two have been seeing each other a while and it seems to be going pretty well, than there's nothing wrong with asking her if she's intersted in taking the relationship to the next level. Although much like asking someone for their phone number she can always say no.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This has been probably going on for about a month, month and a half? I mean, her roomates know I like her, so Im sure she knows. I've met her dad already and he seems to like me because he wants to come up to my school and play me in racquetball.
 
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cyp6 said:
Do things that normal couples do when there to geather, asume you guys are to geather....
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What exactly do "normal couples" do together haha, You're talking to a kid who has never had a girlfriend in his life, in fact female interaction did happen until 2 years ago, I was a real fat kid. The whole Geek to Sheek thing kind of comes to mind, but the mentality is still there ya know
 
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MyOwnKryptonite said:
What exactly do "normal couples" do together haha, You're talking to a kid who has never had a girlfriend in his life, in fact female interaction did happen until 2 years ago, I was a real fat kid. The whole Geek to Sheek thing kind of comes to mind, but the mentality is still there ya know
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Well have you kissed her yet?

Do you hold her hand?

Do you flirt/play with her? (fake wrestle, make fun of her, etc)

If not, you should start if you want something more.
 
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Paintballguy said:
Well have you kissed her yet?

Do you hold her hand?

Do you flirt/play with her? (fake wrestle, make fun of her, etc)

If not, you should start if you want something more.
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Never kissed

Never held her hand

We do flirt, make jokes about each other all the time, pushing wars
 
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Never kissed

Never held her hand

We do flirt, make jokes about each other all the time, pushing wars
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Next time you are walking with her side by side; bump into her. As you bump into her grab her hand and continue walking like normal. If you do it right, it will be really smooth like it should of happened.

Then, after you do the hand holding thing and more flirting you can go for a kiss. Just look into her eyes, then close your eyes as you move in for her lips. The 90/10 rule applies... You move 90% she will come the last 10%.

The next time, you can go for the full on makeout type kiss and keep pushing forward. Hoping that you can get in her pants.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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oooo the bump and hold, I like that. If shes not for it do I just play it off like it were a joke, or swallow my pride haha
 
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oooo the bump and hold, I like that. If shes not for it do I just play it off like it were a joke, or swallow my pride haha
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dont even think she wont like it... it will work trust me.
 
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You really do need to read some more material bro. What you should be doing is working on getting her Interest Level up, work on getting her 'attracted' to you. Once you have done that, everything else will fall into place. Girls make it very easy when they like you.

Right now you are doing allot of 'guessing', which means you will probably fall flat on your face. Work on her IL so the guessing is removed from the equation.

You should have her Interest Level so high that she is doing the 'bump and hold' tactic on YOU.
 
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