Question with gaming a girl w/ BF

[Gears of Led Zep]

Hey sosuave

I'm mostly a lurker but I love reading the great advice and approach stories on here, and in the HS Bible


I just need a little more insight on this problem I'm having.....theres this girl whose got a BF--he's out of HS i'm guessing or attends a different one--me and this female are both juniors. I talk to her a couple times during the week, not always, but whenever I do I'm doing some kino or teasing her or something...basically gaming on her HARD lol and I can tell she likes it but later on I always remember in the back of my head that she has a bf and feel like
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For example this one time I visited her class at the end of the day (sorta afc yea, I went to see my other friend first but then went and sat next to her) and we were talking, one line I said that I liked was

sitting in the desk across from her, looking down at her binder full of pics of hot chicks, "are these your cousins?"

yea some are, one is my friend

"damn they are sexy! theres no way they can be related to you"

and I looked up and she had like the sexiest pout/smile and sarcastically said "wow, thanks"

then the bell and I was like, "aight [HB] ! I gotta dip, later dude" and I held my hand out to high five her bye, not high five but you know what i mean..she grinned, and accepted my hand, did the peace-bro thing, and I held it for a second and just looked her straight in the eyes, confidently smiling you know. "hey we should make up a handshake" but really I was BSing i just wanted to hold her hand. I started gently caressing her thumb slowly, and moved my way down across the baby phat of her palm, rubbing it around, and all the while looking at her smiling (oozing game)

she sort of moan/sighed and sort of lost her breath, she started started doing it back and I just laughed

Then I gues she realized what she was doing & was like "i got to go we'll make it later!" in a flustered manner, however in Spanish, she is Latina and I speak some spanish. a

I know the end might not sound like she enjoyed it, but I picked up the signs and the vibe im pretty sure she was a lil horny




Anyway, I've gotten a little off track, what I'm saying is when I see her at school I do stuff like this, but I'm always hesitant to ask her to hang out at lunch or set a date or anything, cuz I know she has a BF. I'm not really growing attatched to her, she is mainly a punching bag of sort where I can hone my game, but I'll admit that talking to her and thinkin about her does get me pretty hard....ehhh, shes definately got SOME level of interest anyway I mean I'm not a bad looking guy

Need a little advice with a lame situation SS :rock:

 

[Following_of_Me]

The trick with chicks who have boyfriends is to not put too much stake in it. If you really want to try it, why not? Treat her like any other girl. Of course there are ethics to consider here. But if you're fine with that, like I said, treat her like any other girl. If she doesnt mention the boyfriend, keep moving foward. If she does mention him, respectfully back down but still flirt with her, just dont make any direct moves til the time is right.

Oh, and one more thing, the best case scenario is her boyfriend hears about you spending time together and gets jealous. Jealousy is the emotion you want. Cause chances are strong, if you play it cool up to that point, you can drop the "He sounds a little insecure" line, and his jealousy will only help you.

 

[Gears of Led Zep]

Thanks dude, I really appreciate the advice. What you said about jealousy, it reminded me of this other girl I liked, who unortunately I no longer talk to.

Me and this one girl had a great friendship, I even had a little crush on her but never told her; she was dating this total insecure B*tch of a BF. He'd go thru her phone and start some sh*t if he saw any messages attatched to a male name. Me and her used to take the public bus home together, and he knew of our friendship so he kept getting more and more jealous, and a few months ago straight up told her to pick me or him.....I thought this act would show her what an idiot he was but she kindly told me sorry....shes not allowed to speak to me anymore...

but B*TCHES huh whaddyagonna do lol, anyway yea now that I have stopped mourning our past friendship, and have stop wasting time and energy on her, put myself in shape and focused on more important sh*t I see her checking me out all the time, whether she thinks I'm cute or wants me to start talking to her again idk......but I dont care

anyawy thanks for the reply Following

 

[Black Dog]

Yupp yup!!! You got her in a sexual state dude!! That "moan" or loss of breath was funny to read...

This is a good FR..lol.....I'd like to see some more responses to it because I've dealt with similar situations a lot and Pook or other people don't really discuss dealing with taken girls. I know there are a couple "BF Destroyer" methods out there but theyre pretty scare, hard to find etc....but yea good thread, PS nice username