Question-Winter Break

[Mog116]

Wass good?

I went out with this girl just before winter break in college and it was cool...we were talking, chilling, laughing, vibing and all that.

I know I won't see her for a while, but im still trying to talk and communicate cause she has potential.

I've hit her up and we've talked a few times during the break, but it hasn't been consistently or daily...haven't called her either.

Do y'all think I should call her during break or just wait til we get back to school to resume things?

 

[ARrocket]

Just wait. Spend your break focusing on other people/activities, and then make your move asap when you're back over there.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

No point in texting/calling a female unless your trying to set a meetup with a week. Just wait this out until school is approaching.

 

[Mog116]

Thanks for the responses and input. I think I will probably wait til school commences again.
However, I'm just curious as to why you guys suggest to wait it out.

Wouldn't it be a good idea to build some more rapport during this break?

 

[Maximummax]

You will end up looking needy!
she might think you have nothing else to do.

 

[Masculinity]

Thanks for the responses and input. I think I will probably wait til school commences again.
However, I'm just curious as to why you guys suggest to wait it out.

Wouldn't it be a good idea to build some more rapport during this break?

The extent to which you can build rapport over texting is very low. Besides, it will make you appear as if you have nothing better to do, but to text her. Call her when you're back on campus and do your thing.