"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Question-Winter Break

Mog116

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Wass good?

I went out with this girl just before winter break in college and it was cool...we were talking, chilling, laughing, vibing and all that.

I know I won't see her for a while, but im still trying to talk and communicate cause she has potential.

I've hit her up and we've talked a few times during the break, but it hasn't been consistently or daily...haven't called her either.

Do y'all think I should call her during break or just wait til we get back to school to resume things?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ARrocket

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Just wait. Spend your break focusing on other people/activities, and then make your move asap when you're back over there.
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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No point in texting/calling a female unless your trying to set a meetup with a week. Just wait this out until school is approaching.
 

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Thanks for the responses and input. I think I will probably wait til school commences again.
However, I'm just curious as to why you guys suggest to wait it out.

Wouldn't it be a good idea to build some more rapport during this break?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Masculinity

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Mog116 said:
Thanks for the responses and input. I think I will probably wait til school commences again.
However, I'm just curious as to why you guys suggest to wait it out.

Wouldn't it be a good idea to build some more rapport during this break?
The extent to which you can build rapport over texting is very low. Besides, it will make you appear as if you have nothing better to do, but to text her. Call her when you're back on campus and do your thing.
 
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