"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Question: Whats up with these guys

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These guys are either small time "hustlas" with no real money or aspirations. No job sometimes with multiple kids. Usually heavy drug users. Drift back and forth from their mom house to their "main" girlfriends house. They cause more heart ache and pain to the women their with then joy.What the hell is up with these guys. Some times they have super hot chicks. It must be some emotional problem on the girl sides. I really don't understand the dynamic. I'm a smart guy maybe to smart to understand this.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
its like I once read on the roissy site:

Alpha males in the eyes of...

Men: Genghis Khan, Ray Lewis, Julius Caeser, Manny Pacquiao, Brock Lesner

Women: small time drug dealers, bass players, criminals, jerks, gangbangers, man-*****s

Haha. I think women probably respect those that we respect, its just that they sink far lower.
I guess to each his own but these guys just rub me the wrong way. To me small time is small time.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
its like I once read on the roissy site:

Alpha males in the eyes of...

Men: Genghis Khan, Ray Lewis, Julius Caeser, Manny Pacquiao, Brock Lesner

Women: small time drug dealers, bass players, criminals, jerks, gangbangers, man-*****s

Haha. I think women probably respect those that we respect, its just that they sink far lower.

Very clever response. made me laugh.
 
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