"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Question: Whats up with these guys

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These guys are either small time "hustlas" with no real money or aspirations. No job sometimes with multiple kids. Usually heavy drug users. Drift back and forth from their mom house to their "main" girlfriends house. They cause more heart ache and pain to the women their with then joy.What the hell is up with these guys. Some times they have super hot chicks. It must be some emotional problem on the girl sides. I really don't understand the dynamic. I'm a smart guy maybe to smart to understand this.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
its like I once read on the roissy site:

Alpha males in the eyes of...

Men: Genghis Khan, Ray Lewis, Julius Caeser, Manny Pacquiao, Brock Lesner

Women: small time drug dealers, bass players, criminals, jerks, gangbangers, man-*****s

Haha. I think women probably respect those that we respect, its just that they sink far lower.
I guess to each his own but these guys just rub me the wrong way. To me small time is small time.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
its like I once read on the roissy site:

Alpha males in the eyes of...

Men: Genghis Khan, Ray Lewis, Julius Caeser, Manny Pacquiao, Brock Lesner

Women: small time drug dealers, bass players, criminals, jerks, gangbangers, man-*****s

Haha. I think women probably respect those that we respect, its just that they sink far lower.

Very clever response. made me laugh.
 
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