"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Question to the mature man, where do you meet women?

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I saw this part was defined as 25 yrs old + and I'm only 21 but...

I'm currently in my last year of Uni, from here on till the end the workload is on a make or break level, and I'm currently focusing on just getting my degree than trying to get girls.

So I'm asking this for after I leave Uni, where I guess I will be living like a "mature man".

So considering School/collage/Uni are now over where does the mature single man go to meet women.

Talk about the places and/or activities you have taken part in that have allowed you to meet and date women.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Eternal_water said:
I saw this part was defined as 25 yrs old + and I'm only 21 but...
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Then you can't post here. Don't worry about being a "Mature Man" and concentrate on having fun in your last year of college.
 
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