Question To Seniors

[Maximummax]

Is it true that women associate with you only when there is a need (some sort of benefit ) and cut off contacts when the need is over ?

Have you ever been in a situation like this ?

***Sorry if this been already discussed.

 

[zekko]

My experience is that if a woman has a strong emotional connection with you, she will stick around. I guess you could consider that a need or benefit, but I get the feeling that isn't what you are talking about. Of course, you have to make a good choice to begin with - if you pick out a 304, or someone unstable, or if there are other issues like cheating, that probably won't apply.

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

Is it true that women associate with you only when there is a need (some sort of benefit ) and cut off contacts when the need is over ?

Have you ever been in a situation like this ?

***Sorry if this been already discussed.

everybody asssociates with you if there is a need. Your family friends and girls will cut you off if you offer no benefit of some sort. Doesnt have to be material but also emotional or otherwise.

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi Max,
I agree with the others...Romantic liasons are always transactional,many of mine are blatently so...I was sitting with a dancing group one evening and one of the Ladies complained about one of her Sons kicking a hole in a door,saying it could never be repaired right,I said I could fix it,she showed interest...then one of the Guys said "Take care M... you know what currency you'd have to pay Scarra back with",they all laughed.

 

[LTG71]

Is this a rhetorical question? I randomly got asked for deck screws tonight. Um, did you forget where the hardware store was? Most women can’t do things so they have “service providers”. Once the service is complete, they move on. You being in their Rolodex is considered “friendship” and assumed as a free service provider. Rarely will they ever reciprocate.

 

[jhonny9546]

People get togheter for feelings.
People stay togheter for pragmatic things.
When those pragmatic things are satysfied, they can have feelings again, but for other people.
If those other people will ever offer more pragmatic things, they will get togheter.

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi LTG,
"...I randomly got asked for deck screws...". No it's not like that at all...in the last couple of months I have been asked :To replace an Outside light that was dangling by its wires....assemble an Electric Lawnmower....Patch and paint some holes made by an Air Conditioner installer...Put together an IKEA student Desk...Freeup a sticking Metal Gate...A hard up Girl gives what she is happy to give,maybe a third do the dirty deed,then or later. One now lets my Daughters Horse graze in her Paddock another has a Brother who drops off Lamb carcases handy to barter with....living in the Country does have its compensations LOL.

 

[zekko]

I randomly got asked for deck screws tonight.

Deck screws? Sounds like double entendre to me.

 

[justaroundthecorner]

Is it true that women associate with you only when there is a need (some sort of benefit ) and cut off contacts when the need is over ?

Have you ever been in a situation like this ?

***Sorry if this been already discussed.

No. Some women perceive you as a prize - these are your true opportunities in life for good LTR.

Some women will see you as something or someone that may be used for their gains (e.g. to get the other guy or access to something that would be more difficult to access otherwise - like money, job opportunity etc.). You will meet much more of this sort.

That's why you need to train your intuition and get the clues about ppl real intentions right - training intuition is very important.

It is also more important to be with attractive, good woman than to be with very hot chick treating you purely in transactional manner. The first one will promote your agenda and help you achieve your other goals, unlock your true potential as it may be while the second one will drain you and appreciate any good monkey branching opportunity that will happen.

Some guy here wrote that real LTR material are not the women you perceive as super hot but the women that are sexually interesting for you and you are naturally sexually interesting for them (so some 6+/ 7's on 1 - 10 looks only scale for above average guy) and that's how it always will be - because either you are naturally somewhat resistant to the female charm (which is precondition for not being pushover/doormate for her and precondition for LTR) or not - and females, an intuitive creatures, will always feel what is the truth and will look through your fake game. They will always know before you will notice and qualify you as loser, potential orbiter or someone more interesting.

That's why giving no interest to really hot women in your social circle as it may be, may be actually a good idea.

 

[plumber]

Is it true that women associate with you only when there is a need (some sort of benefit ) and cut off contacts when the need is over ?

Have you ever been in a situation like this ?

***Sorry if this been already discussed.

yes this happens. don't tell them all your tricks at once. let them manufacture your value level without giving much data. if your helping them with something, this is not a time to qualify yourself, this is a time to qualify them. its like a date, you give something to have the appointment to either qualify them or qualify yourself. depending on the path you take is how the results go.

 

[LTG71]

Hi LTG,
"...I randomly got asked for deck screws...". No it's not like that at all...in the last couple of months I have been asked :To replace an Outside light that was dangling by its wires....assemble an Electric Lawnmower....Patch and paint some holes made by an Air Conditioner installer...Put together an IKEA student Desk...Freeup a sticking Metal Gate...A hard up Girl gives what she is happy to give,maybe a third do the dirty deed,then or later. One now lets my Daughters Horse graze in her Paddock another has a Brother who drops off Lamb carcases handy to barter with....living in the Country does have its compensations LOL.

Sounds like you have a few that pay you back for your efforts. Most just expect it under the guise of friendship. Funny how feminism fails when they need things done. Country living is nice and typically honest hard working people in your circle.

 

[LTG71]

This goes for guys too. It‘s more of a mutual exchange. Help each other out with your skills or provide some assistance when you can. Problem is most women are not skilled when it comes to physical labor. I do the things Scaramouche described on a regular basis. If I needed to do something harder, I’d ask another guy. Women barely want to make you a sandwich these days

 

[Bokanovsky]

Is this a rhetorical question? I randomly got asked for deck screws tonight. Um, did you forget where the hardware store was? Most women can’t do things so they have “service providers”. Once the service is complete, they move on. You being in their Rolodex is considered “friendship” and assumed as a free service provider. Rarely will they ever reciprocate.

That's why you don't extend credit to these "customers"