"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sosousage

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Why they (american rioters) are destroying their country like that? after all, your robbing,destroying local shops and businesses and killing shop owners who try to protect it


NO ONE WINS!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why they (american rioters) are destroying their country like that? after all, your robbing,destroying local shops and businesses and killing shop owners who try to protect it


NO ONE WINS!
Its because those sneaky f*uckers are acting like women hissy fiting and all to try and get laid.

They are miserable people trying to fill the void in thier life by taking what they think is the moral high ground even if it end up killing and hurting more ppl and then making other miserable.
 

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Because it hasnt got to the war level. But indeed if they keep it up we are going to see a patriotic bloodbath. Law and order must be a part of society and no sane man to me is to not help their fellow neighbor be destroyed.
Unfortunately, there are weak leaders who purposely let the rioting go on because they empathized with the protester's cause. We unfortunately saw a disgusting act committed by a bad cop, who murdered a man in police custody, and people were correctly angered by this. So the weak leaders saw the rioting as justified and did not stop it. Unfortunately (again), numerous people lost their lives, were injured, were looted, or saw their businesses destroyed, because of that tolerance.
 

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Unfortunately, there are weak leaders who purposely let the rioting go on because they empathized with the protester's cause. We unfortunately saw a disgusting act committed by a bad cop, who murdered a man in police custody, and people were correctly angered by this. So the weak leaders saw the rioting as justified and did not stop it. Unfortunately (again), numerous people lost their lives, were injured, were looted, or saw their businesses destroyed, because of that tolerance.
Theres always politics in play.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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zekko

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Theres always politics in play.
It's entirely political, unfortunately. There are people here who are being used and played for fools.
 

RangerMIke

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Failure of leadership at ALL levels. Americans need to take who they vote for a lot more seriously than we do.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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He’s on a temp ban. We try to give guys a chance to reconsider their patterns of behavior. Some do, and some don’t. If he continues, it will be permanent.
 
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