"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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MackToBe

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Just like to ask the experienced and pros here what things or questions to ask, I mean good open ended questions that get them to talk more and you (me) to listen. I know that players get women to think in romantic directions thats what sets them apart from many of the "average" men. Any tips on how to start off a line to say? so that they know Im more than a friend material if you catch my drift.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Dude... you're stupid.

No, really.

Just say anything, and go from there.

Even the most simple question will do. And whatever the answer, you can go with. :-(

Bro, an open ended question is something that does not trigger a yes or no response. Use your own imagination on what to ask.

I wonder where all the intelligent posters went - the people who asked good questions we all could learn from. *sigh*
 

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David D recommends asking about their wildest/craziest time. When she talks to you about experiences that have positive emotions, she will associate you with those emotions. Another poster on here recommended, "Tell me a secret."

The classic therapist question is "and how does that make you feel?" It sounds afc, but it works if you do it correctly. Abandon the subject if it makes her feel negative emotions and push forward if it is positive. After a while, you will learn what makes her feel wild and sexy without having to ask, and you can push those buttons at will.
 
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