Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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MackToBe

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Just like to ask the experienced and pros here what things or questions to ask, I mean good open ended questions that get them to talk more and you (me) to listen. I know that players get women to think in romantic directions thats what sets them apart from many of the "average" men. Any tips on how to start off a line to say? so that they know Im more than a friend material if you catch my drift.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dude... you're stupid.

No, really.

Just say anything, and go from there.

Even the most simple question will do. And whatever the answer, you can go with. :-(

Bro, an open ended question is something that does not trigger a yes or no response. Use your own imagination on what to ask.

I wonder where all the intelligent posters went - the people who asked good questions we all could learn from. *sigh*
 

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David D recommends asking about their wildest/craziest time. When she talks to you about experiences that have positive emotions, she will associate you with those emotions. Another poster on here recommended, "Tell me a secret."

The classic therapist question is "and how does that make you feel?" It sounds afc, but it works if you do it correctly. Abandon the subject if it makes her feel negative emotions and push forward if it is positive. After a while, you will learn what makes her feel wild and sexy without having to ask, and you can push those buttons at will.
 
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