"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Question... something i've always was curious about

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Well, a girl says / talks about some bullshi* and say's things that turn you down like "I'm not looking for a relaitonship right now" or some other lame bullshi* during a convo.

But her body language / actions doesn't say the same thing....



Should a DJ consider her words or her actions to be telling the truth?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If I were in your shoes, I wouldn't bother with her. Too many other girls out there. Spit that game wit em
 
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Originally posted by omizzi
If I were in your shoes, I wouldn't bother with her. Too many other girls out there. Spit that game wit em
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Did i ask you for your advice?

I've asked for opinion.

Get it straight
 
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These phrases women say are either tests or subtle cues you are acting like a wuss. Some good responses are, "Relationship? Who ever said we were going to get in a relationship?" "Don't want a relationship right now, you must be frustrated." "I hope you are not one of those man haters."
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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