“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Question regarding working out and alcohol.

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I work out Mon-Thursday, using fri-sun as rest days. Would it hurt my training to drink one of these days? I'm not talking about piss drunk.. but pretty drunk. Enough to get a good buzz going. Assuming I didn't miss my meals and still got proper sleep. I want to drink at least one day a week, maybe play some beer pong.. but I've read that it makes your training go completely to waste. I'm 6'1 and about 145-150 lbs, my goal is to bulk up. I was heavy drinker in the past, ever sense I turned 21 especially. Drinking about a 12 pack everyday. I was the guy that was always hung over at work all the time.. now, I'm trying to get my life straightened out. I just started hitting the gym again, and went all week not drinking. My body is sore, and all I want to do is relax right now, but would drinking hurt me, even if I only did it once a week? I'm kind of worried about it.
 

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I'm 30 years old. Drinking alot is over for me. I may drink 2 or 3 socially but no more than that. As you get older hopefully you will start to feel the same way. You don't want to be like the guys who never get that.

However, at 30, it's a little harder to me to be in peak shape. Sometimes i think back to what could've been had i slowed down to 2 or 3 a week back when I was in prime fighting shape. If that's really your goal I would give it a real shot and tone down the drinking.
 

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I actually have toned it down. I haven't had a drink in 8 days. Which is actually me quitting cold turkey. (Just one day realizing, like hey.. I want to start working out again. I need to quit drinking.) So that's what I did. And This was me going from drinking anywhere from a 6-12 pack EVERYDAY. I decided not to drink last night either.. but I did something just as bad.. stayed up really late. My body is so soar. It's 1:44 PM and I JUST woke up. I guess I just need to start taking this a lot more seriously. I already missed my breakfast, so now I'm just going to have a gigantic lunch and hopefully catch up in calories for today.
 

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True.

What blows my mind is the "Jersey Shore" phenominon. Are these guys juicing or what? How the hell can you be that huge, and seriously get drunk at a club EVERY SINGLE NIGHT?

It blows my mind.

I guess I've came to the conclusion that I'm only going to drink once a week. (During my rest days.) Probably just a couple beers tops. No black out drunkness like I'm used to.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Scars said:
What blows my mind is the "Jersey Shore" phenominon. Are these guys juicing or what? How the hell can you be that huge, and seriously get drunk at a club EVERY SINGLE NIGHT?
I'd be willing to bet everything I own that they're juicing. Those guys are too stupid to understand diet and regular training, and too reckless to carry it off.

Obviously you still have to hit the gym when you're on steroids, but at least they can just go and mindlessly lift weights for an hour or two and not have to worry about the more complicated stuff.

I wouldn't rule out implants and cosmetic surgery with some of those guys too.
 

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Thanks for the link. Rep+

And yeah, look at "The Situation" for example. His upper body is huge, but his bottom half is tiny. I even remember one of his female house mates insulting him about it in one of the earlier episodes. You could blame it on an imbalanced routine, but I think they're doing more than just dieting and hitting the gym. Either way, it kind of irritates me, but I swore to myself I would never juice or use any illegal substances to try and bulk. I want to keep it completely natural.
 
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