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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

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Question regarding Lunch Date

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Hey guys,

So I just started working Full-Time a few weeks back. This girl I've been on and off with for a while just started work as well and our offices are VERY close to each other. We were talking via text a few days back and I invited her to get a drink, which she declined because she was on the other side of town. She then proceeded to say we have to go do lunch asap because were so close to each other.

My thing is I can't just go out and have a hour and a half sit-down lunch with this chick, as I just started and I don't want to put a bad taste in my boss' mouth etc.

So my question here is, would it be fvcked up of me if we go to like salad, pizza, or sandwich place? Would that look a little wrong on my part or do you think she'd still be quite pleased just because shes out with me?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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why don't you take control and tell her straight up that you have a limited time?
what's hard about that?
who said you have to have a 1.5 hour lunch?
 
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Lunch dates are used for A) being friends with women you need money from B) to find out cheaply who they are and if they are interested

I would tell her "I only have 30 minutes, so unless you want to get a five dollar footlong at Subway, I suggest we get a drink or something after work. That way, we have more time to talk."
 
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