"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Question regarding girls turning cold and aloofness etc

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Hi all,

1) In a social circle, if a group of guys and girls are sitting together talking and laughing etc, and if a female friend who used to be into you ignores you by:
-avoiding ALL eye contact with you
-avoiding looking anywhere near where you're sitting
-avoiding coming anywhere close to you

Doesn't this mean that she's putting in lots of effort just to avoid the guy?
I mean, this is what I'm experiencing now, and I must say I feel uncomfortable for her LOL
(though when I talk to her, she will still respond, then go back into full-ignorance mode)

I wonder if this is revenge on me for being kinda an ass-hole to her previously etc.


2) Is it true that if a girl is friendly towards you but you behave in an aloof manner, she'll just shut you out and become cold towards you?

Aloofness is one issue I'm having constantly, I'm trying to get rid of it now.

Tks!
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sounds like she genuinely doesn't give a rats ass.
 
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I'll always try to talk to a girl and see whats going on. It's easy to think you are the cause of things like this when you really aren't.
 
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Don't waste time analyzing mind games.

If you want to know where to you stand.. just ask her out.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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