Question on how she should dress...

[Ridingthelightning]

Short back story - this older lady (over 10 years) calls and tells me her boy dumped her and we should hang out. Done deal.

She just texted and asked...
"Should I dress vamp or subtly hot? Where will we be going after (insert bar name)"

How would YOU respond?

 

[horaholic]

Tell her to wear something that matches your bedroom carpet.

 

[Paradox]

She just wants to know what the plans are so she can dress appropriately

Are you taking her to dinner after the bar or to a club?

She might want to wear heels but that would be bad for dancing.

If you plan on taking her to your place after the bar let her know. She might bring a few small items...to freshen up....before and after.

I've had many a woman run this line on me and that is exactly what they want. They want to be prepared.

 

[horaholic]

If you plan on taking her to your place after the bar let her know. She might bring a few small items...to freshen up....before and after.
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Better be VERY tactful about that one, if you decide that. The best way I know of to say that would be "If you happen to need a place to crash later, you can. Just dont get any ideas " or something similar.