Question?? Older guy dating younger girl?

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I'm 35 & the girl I'm talking to is 19....Her mom doen't like me because of my age....I tell her that I'm a college educated person with a decent job...but it doesn't matter to her....

The other day we talked on the phone and her mom expressed how she felt about me...she even asked if I believed in God...& I told her no..but told her I'm a good person....She was even more unhappy...she was like your too old to date my daughter plus you don't believe in God....My friend told me I should I have lied to her and said I do.....but I don't think I should have to lie to her mother...What do you guys think? When talking w/ parents should you be honest about religious prefrences?

My second question....my girl doesn't have a car and she asked me to drive her around every where....like drop me off here or there....& shes between quarters at school and asked me if I could drop her off at her mother's house which is 3 1/2 hours away because she has no way to get home, she has no money.....and then pick her up when school starts again.....Should I do it? What do you guys think?
Thanks for any opinions.....

 

[aliasguy]

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I had a pissed-off mom call me up over her daughter who I was seeing. The girl was 20, and the mom was only 3 years older than me. She called me, and I stupidly picked up, thinking it was someone else. She was lecturing me over the phone, and getting hostile. I finessed it all in 30sec, but it would have been better if we had never spoken.

Don't even talk to her mother anymore. No need to justify yourself to her. Why are you having these conversations with her?

Stop being this chick's driver. Just quit. Pick her up when you are going to do something together. Be "busy" or something.

(Are you even screwing this girl?)

If she's living with her mommy, try to pick her up elsewhere.

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[j0n024]

Yes I agree with above. One you dont need to get "Approval" from her mom since her mother is no in the relationship to begin with, Two your a grownass man do you actually listen to her mother? I dont think you should drive her around everywhere since that might show you are her little puppy dog and she can get you to do anything for her plus how much gas prices are nowadays. I would tell her to either get a job or have mommy put a down payment on a car now this is positives and negatives, I think you can think of the positives but the negatives is she is going to have much much more freedom and I can already hear a "Girls night out" coming really fast if she gets a car.

 

[jesusrules]

shes over 18 so thats fine. but anyways i dont know why it matters to the mom if your religious or not. to be honest it sounds like that chick is using(sp) you man. she makes you drive her everywhere. i would see how that goes man. cause she might just thinks its cool to be with a older dude so that she can brag to her friends. if i were you i wouldnt mess with her i would move on.