How persisten are you usually with women. Usually i give up pretty soon as there is plenty of fish in the pond but thne i start thinking of a few couples i know where the dude was persistent while he girl wasn't "interested" (one of those couples lasted for 5 years). Women usually don't know what they want and i'm not here to really tell them "here i am" but i'm sure that my quick "move-ons" are sometimes hurtfull.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Depends on your level of patience, and if you dont mind the fact that while you are waiting, they are sleeping naked with your male rivals. Then, in about 20% of the cases, might something happen.
PVSSY-EATER
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persistance......hmmmmm.....
Remember this my friend, we are the prize. We are the challenge. We are the mystery. Not women.
She should be asking herself a question to her girlfriends about, how to get you because YOU are the one who she cant keep up with.
It is not a matter of persistance when the girl is not calling you back, rejects all your date ideas, etc. Persistance only works when you already have her interest, it just basically means...and my agent told me this when I went to a second audition....just do what got you in the door! That is what persistance is, but kid, if she aint calling you back or is rejecting your date ideas, you aint in the door so NEXTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT....
Remember this my friend, we are the prize. We are the challenge. We are the mystery. Not women.
She should be asking herself a question to her girlfriends about, how to get you because YOU are the one who she cant keep up with.
It is not a matter of persistance when the girl is not calling you back, rejects all your date ideas, etc. Persistance only works when you already have her interest, it just basically means...and my agent told me this when I went to a second audition....just do what got you in the door! That is what persistance is, but kid, if she aint calling you back or is rejecting your date ideas, you aint in the door so NEXTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT....
Jus_LikeCandy
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Auditioning for what?? Porn Star??
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
spider_007
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PERSISTANCE?????
bad idea
or
good
all depends on if you really want an restraining order against you or not???
bad idea
or
good
all depends on if you really want an restraining order against you or not???
Mister Big
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This is a good question. Many believe that being a true DJ doesn't allow you to accept low interest from women, so you just move on after a rejection. But take Jack Nicholsen as an example. He is one ugly old fart who always gets initially rejected by women, but his C&F persistence turns them all on eventually. This is hollywood B.S., but I know many cool couples where the guy had to grow on the woman before she had interest. This does happen if you have serious convo and C&F chops which can be developed.
If you need to kill some time or don't have near better options, I don't see the harm in trying again and again as long as you avoid AFC behavior and she doesn't respond in an aggressively negative way. Some women enjoy the C&F rejection cycle and can build up interest this way. Then again, some women are just bi*tches. Wasting your time when there are comparable women to approach seems dumb. Jack only goes after top shelf, so he never wastes his time as no one compares to the chicks he approaches. Maintain your dignity and confidence and don't ever act like she is doing you a favor and this should be ok.
If you need to kill some time or don't have near better options, I don't see the harm in trying again and again as long as you avoid AFC behavior and she doesn't respond in an aggressively negative way. Some women enjoy the C&F rejection cycle and can build up interest this way. Then again, some women are just bi*tches. Wasting your time when there are comparable women to approach seems dumb. Jack only goes after top shelf, so he never wastes his time as no one compares to the chicks he approaches. Maintain your dignity and confidence and don't ever act like she is doing you a favor and this should be ok.
PVSSY-EATER
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trying again and again is afc behavior......
and as far as not losing his dignity and respect, he LOSES all of that when he tries to hold on to something that aint going no where.
Bottom line......he is better than that he is the prize, not her bytch azz.
and as far as not losing his dignity and respect, he LOSES all of that when he tries to hold on to something that aint going no where.
Bottom line......he is better than that he is the prize, not her bytch azz.
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NEWSFLASH! Jack Nicholson gets laid because he is a multi millionaire! If he was a janitor in Portland, how much pussay would he score? Exaactly my point.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Mister Big
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Really, I didn't realize that. When did you find this out? I hadn't heard. Thanks for the update.
Hey now! Don't mess with Jack. lol. I am not really a fan and I used to hate how this guy always picked scripts where he was seducing these beautiful women well over his physical level.
Its his character that seems interesting to comment on. The man has BALLS and never compromises himself with women no matter their level. We could all learn something from his approach.
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Yes, we can learn that if we are Hollywood superstars with 80 million in the bank, we wont have to deal with KINO because women will get into catfights to see who can KINO us.
Mister Big
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Let's sign you into the Jack Nicholson fan club and call it a day. Are there any hollywood superstars we are allowed to reference? Just curious.