How persisten are you usually with women. Usually i give up pretty soon as there is plenty of fish in the pond but thne i start thinking of a few couples i know where the dude was persistent while he girl wasn't "interested" (one of those couples lasted for 5 years). Women usually don't know what they want and i'm not here to really tell them "here i am" but i'm sure that my quick "move-ons" are sometimes hurtfull.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Depends on your level of patience, and if you dont mind the fact that while you are waiting, they are sleeping naked with your male rivals. Then, in about 20% of the cases, might something happen.
PVSSY-EATER
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persistance......hmmmmm.....
Remember this my friend, we are the prize. We are the challenge. We are the mystery. Not women.
She should be asking herself a question to her girlfriends about, how to get you because YOU are the one who she cant keep up with.
It is not a matter of persistance when the girl is not calling you back, rejects all your date ideas, etc. Persistance only works when you already have her interest, it just basically means...and my agent told me this when I went to a second audition....just do what got you in the door! That is what persistance is, but kid, if she aint calling you back or is rejecting your date ideas, you aint in the door so NEXTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT....
Remember this my friend, we are the prize. We are the challenge. We are the mystery. Not women.
She should be asking herself a question to her girlfriends about, how to get you because YOU are the one who she cant keep up with.
It is not a matter of persistance when the girl is not calling you back, rejects all your date ideas, etc. Persistance only works when you already have her interest, it just basically means...and my agent told me this when I went to a second audition....just do what got you in the door! That is what persistance is, but kid, if she aint calling you back or is rejecting your date ideas, you aint in the door so NEXTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT....
Jus_LikeCandy
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Auditioning for what?? Porn Star??
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
spider_007
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PERSISTANCE?????
bad idea
or
good
all depends on if you really want an restraining order against you or not???
bad idea
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good
all depends on if you really want an restraining order against you or not???
Mister Big
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This is a good question. Many believe that being a true DJ doesn't allow you to accept low interest from women, so you just move on after a rejection. But take Jack Nicholsen as an example. He is one ugly old fart who always gets initially rejected by women, but his C&F persistence turns them all on eventually. This is hollywood B.S., but I know many cool couples where the guy had to grow on the woman before she had interest. This does happen if you have serious convo and C&F chops which can be developed.
If you need to kill some time or don't have near better options, I don't see the harm in trying again and again as long as you avoid AFC behavior and she doesn't respond in an aggressively negative way. Some women enjoy the C&F rejection cycle and can build up interest this way. Then again, some women are just bi*tches. Wasting your time when there are comparable women to approach seems dumb. Jack only goes after top shelf, so he never wastes his time as no one compares to the chicks he approaches. Maintain your dignity and confidence and don't ever act like she is doing you a favor and this should be ok.
If you need to kill some time or don't have near better options, I don't see the harm in trying again and again as long as you avoid AFC behavior and she doesn't respond in an aggressively negative way. Some women enjoy the C&F rejection cycle and can build up interest this way. Then again, some women are just bi*tches. Wasting your time when there are comparable women to approach seems dumb. Jack only goes after top shelf, so he never wastes his time as no one compares to the chicks he approaches. Maintain your dignity and confidence and don't ever act like she is doing you a favor and this should be ok.
PVSSY-EATER
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trying again and again is afc behavior......
and as far as not losing his dignity and respect, he LOSES all of that when he tries to hold on to something that aint going no where.
Bottom line......he is better than that he is the prize, not her bytch azz.
and as far as not losing his dignity and respect, he LOSES all of that when he tries to hold on to something that aint going no where.
Bottom line......he is better than that he is the prize, not her bytch azz.
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NEWSFLASH! Jack Nicholson gets laid because he is a multi millionaire! If he was a janitor in Portland, how much pussay would he score? Exaactly my point.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Mister Big
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Really, I didn't realize that. When did you find this out? I hadn't heard. Thanks for the update.
Hey now! Don't mess with Jack. lol. I am not really a fan and I used to hate how this guy always picked scripts where he was seducing these beautiful women well over his physical level.
Its his character that seems interesting to comment on. The man has BALLS and never compromises himself with women no matter their level. We could all learn something from his approach.
Mister Big
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JackPrescott
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Yes, we can learn that if we are Hollywood superstars with 80 million in the bank, we wont have to deal with KINO because women will get into catfights to see who can KINO us.
Mister Big
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Let's sign you into the Jack Nicholson fan club and call it a day. Are there any hollywood superstars we are allowed to reference? Just curious.