"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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rapsta

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to all you pro's out there.
i have this girl, she knows almost everything about sex etc.
i live in sweden. she seems VERY trustworthy etc.
but i just can't imagine her just having sex with ONE guy 2 times ONLY.
he was just her friend. she had a crush on him. she told me he came after 30 seconds both times. the first time was was 3 years ago and the second time 1 year ago.

i just asked her "how she felt before having sex the first time, if she was scared, how long time it took her to decide wether she should have it or not, why she had it etc"

she just said: 2 days...
and i replied the question because she was talking about me.. so she told me she didn't wanna talk about it

she said "you just wont believe i haven't had sex with more than that guy will you?"
(she knew what i was talking about)

she is a smart girl etc, a good girl.. or so it seems, ive known her for 3 days..
but tell me, how can i ask her some questions that will give me this answer?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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rapsta

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no this is what i want.
i wanna get to know if she has fvcked more than 2 times before me.
i've already fvcked her and she knew what to do and how to do it.
i just wanna know if she have done that, then i know she have been playin games with me the whole time
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Maybe she's telling the truth and just watches porn; lots of girls do. Porn helped me get through my first time without a lot of awkwardness... it's a great teacher.
 

rapsta

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yeah i thought about it too actually.. but im not really sure
 

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why the f*ck should you care if she's been playing games anyway? Even if she is, you already came out as a winner cause you already banged her. Gezz, stop analyzing and start enjoy that free ride plz
 

rapsta

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hehe aight nevermind, thanks for replies.. it turned out she was a virgin for real
 

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For the future, never believe anything a woman tells you about how many guys she banged. She might have told that same story to the last 50 guys she had "relations" with. She knew what to do huh? Porno is only going to teach you but so much. Sounds like she ain't a rookie, ya feel me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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rapsta

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she really knew what to do bro. but im totally sure she aint lying. i can feel it.. and i mean i can really feel it. =) but otherwise i never believe what a woman tells me.
 
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