"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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rapsta

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to all you pro's out there.
i have this girl, she knows almost everything about sex etc.
i live in sweden. she seems VERY trustworthy etc.
but i just can't imagine her just having sex with ONE guy 2 times ONLY.
he was just her friend. she had a crush on him. she told me he came after 30 seconds both times. the first time was was 3 years ago and the second time 1 year ago.

i just asked her "how she felt before having sex the first time, if she was scared, how long time it took her to decide wether she should have it or not, why she had it etc"

she just said: 2 days...
and i replied the question because she was talking about me.. so she told me she didn't wanna talk about it

she said "you just wont believe i haven't had sex with more than that guy will you?"
(she knew what i was talking about)

she is a smart girl etc, a good girl.. or so it seems, ive known her for 3 days..
but tell me, how can i ask her some questions that will give me this answer?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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rapsta

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no this is what i want.
i wanna get to know if she has fvcked more than 2 times before me.
i've already fvcked her and she knew what to do and how to do it.
i just wanna know if she have done that, then i know she have been playin games with me the whole time
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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GaryNas

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Maybe she's telling the truth and just watches porn; lots of girls do. Porn helped me get through my first time without a lot of awkwardness... it's a great teacher.
 

rapsta

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yeah i thought about it too actually.. but im not really sure
 

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why the f*ck should you care if she's been playing games anyway? Even if she is, you already came out as a winner cause you already banged her. Gezz, stop analyzing and start enjoy that free ride plz
 

rapsta

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hehe aight nevermind, thanks for replies.. it turned out she was a virgin for real
 

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For the future, never believe anything a woman tells you about how many guys she banged. She might have told that same story to the last 50 guys she had "relations" with. She knew what to do huh? Porno is only going to teach you but so much. Sounds like she ain't a rookie, ya feel me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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rapsta

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she really knew what to do bro. but im totally sure she aint lying. i can feel it.. and i mean i can really feel it. =) but otherwise i never believe what a woman tells me.
 
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