"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Question: MONTREAL

Lothie

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Hi guys,

I've been lurking here a while, and I had a question for anyone from or living in Montreal.

I'm planning on moving there soon from the States, and I just wanted to know in general what the people are like.

Here in the States, people here generally tend to be aloof, cold, somewhat sullen even. The girls - well, it's a mixed bag. That's one of the reasons I'm moving.

I know from having visited MTL, that the guys are warmer and more friendly, but I'm wondering what the ladies are like. I don't like b_tchy, angry attitudes, such that I've noticed in American girls.

My French is so-so, and I've noticed that the francophone girls are generally more friendly than the anglophone ones. I don't get the anti-US attitudes from the francophones that I've seen in the anglo chicks, but that's just my personal experience.

What is like dealing with people day-to-day in MTL? I know this sounds sort of weird, but I'm a social person by nature, and I can't stand lousy attitudes.

Anyway, just wondering - I'm a DJ who's over 25 and can easily pass for one that age. When I get there, maybe we can wing together. Thanks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Montreal is a very friendly town. Just be careful... the drivers are nuts.
 

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i might be going there for new years. I was wondering what people are like. I heard horror stories of haw badly they treat english speaking people, so i'm not really looking foward to it. I don't speak a word of friench (i can barly do english, it's my second laguage). what are the chances of chatting up some hotties (outside stripclubs...)
 
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