"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm trying not to start another looks thread here.

There's a lot of talk about getting called "cute" or getting called "hot", and I think a lot of us hear both from women. But what does it mean to get called "adorable"? I'm mainly asking the girls on this site this question, and not the guys because I don't think guys know how to distinguish the different ways women categorize guys as attractive, because to men a woman is either good looking or she's not. There are no different categories. But if you're a guy and you want to weigh in feel free I guess.

I'm only asking this because I get called "adorable" a lot. Sometimes I hear it after I talk to a girl and get to know her, and other times I hear it from a girl I've never even met or just seen for the first time. A lot of times I'll hear cute or hot or something like that first, but other times I won't.

I realize the sound of the word "adorable" is going to invite some flamers. In fact, I don't even like to write that word or admit that I get called it. But please don't respond with something about how I'm putting too much stock in my looks or that girls are seeing me as their little brother or some cliche' flame like that. You don't know me, and you don't know the girls I've slept with. Plenty of times I've slept with a girl who has called me this word in bed, and I highly doubt she was trying to have fantasies about her little brother.

My cousin (a girl) told me that it's a really high compliment, but I'm just interested in some other female perspective.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I don't think guys know how to distinguish the different ways women categorize guys as attractive, because to men a woman is either good looking or she's not. There are no different categories. But if you're a guy and you want to weigh in feel free I guess.
Well I think it's no different than how most guys simply say a girl is 7,8,9 or 10. Women basically do the same thing. They just use different semantics. I hthink it means you are attractive with boyish good looks as opposed to attractive with more "masculine" looks. I'm just taking a guess as I don't know what you look like.
 

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Mike,

If you are trying to "dig out" if you are ATTRACTIVE or not, STOP.

A man's TRUE attraction level is different than a woman's TRUE attraction level.

For a woman to be ATTRACTIVE, it's based on a visual display. This is NOT the same for a guy, so you don't need to post your pic like Keto demands so his faggo azz can look at your body and see if you have "abs" and judge your looks.

Instead, a man's ATTRACTION is based on RESULTS. If you fvcked her, YOU are attractive. If you mind-fvcked her and she can't get enough of you, YOU are attractive. And this will spread........once you then fvcked a number of chicks you BECOME ATTRACTIVE based on the RESULT of those actions.

Do you see what I'm saying? You have to "catch" what I'm saying....if you don't get it let me know.
 

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I think Keto hit it on the head, amazingly enough. Cute and adorable usually describes more boyish looks.

And I know men who have a difference in what pretty, cute, hot, and beautiful looks like.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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John-467 said:
Mike,

If you are trying to "dig out" if you are ATTRACTIVE or not, STOP.

A man's TRUE attraction level is different than a woman's TRUE attraction level.

For a woman to be ATTRACTIVE, it's based on a visual display. This is NOT the same for a guy, so you don't need to post your pic like Keto demands so his faggo azz can look at your body and see if you have "abs" and judge your looks.

Instead, a man's ATTRACTION is based on RESULTS. If you fvcked her, YOU are attractive. If you mind-fvcked her and she can't get enough of you, YOU are attractive. And this will spread........once you then fvcked a number of chicks you BECOME ATTRACTIVE based on the RESULT of those actions.

Do you see what I'm saying? You have to "catch" what I'm saying....if you don't get it let me know.
Go ahead and never respond to another one of my threads. Thanks.
 

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By the way, MikeYikes gets the official good looking sosuaver patch of approval from the iq. :)

Cute and adorable = highly attractive, in his case.
 

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ketostix said:
Well I think it's no different than how most guys simply say a girl is 7,8,9 or 10. Women basically do the same thing. They just use different semantics. I hthink it means you are attractive with boyish good looks as opposed to attractive with more "masculine" looks. I'm just taking a guess as I don't know what you look like.
I think you're right too, and that was a pretty good response to my question. To me, it seems guys just kind of have a different way of evaluating attractiveness. That was why I was mainly asking girls I guess.
 

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^^^ Lol, Mikey, don't be mad at John, who is probably drunk.

John is a great addition to the boards!
It is Sunday night/Monday morning. I'm really impressed with that guy if he is hammered right now. Not saying I've never pulled it off, but what is he drinking church wine or something?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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hahah Mike wtf,

"Go ahead and never respond to another one of my threads. Thanks."

hahah what's wrong your panties are screwed on too tight? :)
 

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John-467 said:
hahah Mike wtf,

"Go ahead and never respond to another one of my threads. Thanks."

hahah what's wrong your panties are screwed on too tight? :)
John true question, are you really this sensitive and abrasive in everyday life? If so, I can't imagine you having too many friends or women. And you wonder why few people want to listen to your "advice".
 

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<<< (Had to look up the word abrasive lol :up:)

hahah Keto are you kidding me? I'm "sensitive"? The Original poster of da thread told me to fvck off and not post in "HIS" threads anymore...

Hahah, I take it he didn't like me advice? :wave:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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John-467 said:
If you are trying to "dig out" if you are ATTRACTIVE or not, STOP.

Instead, a man's ATTRACTION is based on RESULTS. If you fvcked her, YOU are attractive.
:crackup:

This really is spot on IMO. I agree 100% John. It's actions from women that matter.

Any compliment should be viewed as a 'green light', and if you find her attractive, go for it.

Trying to interpret every little comment by some woman is not masculine behavior. As men we are the ones that should be taking action.

So to repeat John's great quote...

"Instead, a man's ATTRACTION is based on RESULTS. If you fvcked her, YOU are attractive."
 

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NO more "looks" threads.

All you do is flame-bait John, consider yourself on notice.

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