"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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question how to use facebook/text message to get a girl

duke104

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Hey guys quick question. This girl I used to know back in high school just recently sent me a message on facebook saying how she misses me and wants to hang out soon. Any word of advice on how to set up a hangout/date using either facebook or text message and possibly increase attraction? She's definitely a girl I would wanna date so I don't want to mess this up. Thanks!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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King Turi

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Well since she's already said she wants to hang out with you, tell her where and when yous are gonna hang out..

Tell her "lets catch up on x day bout x time" or something..

Don't put any question marks in there though.
 

Hughman

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duke104 said:
Hey guys quick question. This girl I used to know back in high school just recently sent me a message on facebook saying how she misses me and wants to hang out soon. Any word of advice on how to set up a hangout/date using either facebook or text message and possibly increase attraction? She's definitely a girl I would wanna date so I don't want to mess this up. Thanks!
Alternatively, man up and call her. Far easier in the long run.
 
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