"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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question how to use facebook/text message to get a girl

duke104

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Hey guys quick question. This girl I used to know back in high school just recently sent me a message on facebook saying how she misses me and wants to hang out soon. Any word of advice on how to set up a hangout/date using either facebook or text message and possibly increase attraction? She's definitely a girl I would wanna date so I don't want to mess this up. Thanks!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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King Turi

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Well since she's already said she wants to hang out with you, tell her where and when yous are gonna hang out..

Tell her "lets catch up on x day bout x time" or something..

Don't put any question marks in there though.
 

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duke104 said:
Hey guys quick question. This girl I used to know back in high school just recently sent me a message on facebook saying how she misses me and wants to hang out soon. Any word of advice on how to set up a hangout/date using either facebook or text message and possibly increase attraction? She's definitely a girl I would wanna date so I don't want to mess this up. Thanks!
Alternatively, man up and call her. Far easier in the long run.
 
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