"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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question for you playerz

speedF

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well, i went out tonight and met this really hot girl, who i met before a long time ago. anyway, we did a lot of kino, flirting, and i was going to ask her for her number, but somehow i lost her in the crowds.

ironcially, i added her on myspace a few monts back when we first met. anyhow, she's leaving campus in 4 days, so i was thinking about messasing her a goodbye cuz she's going to France for several months abroad?

got any good ideas that will either make her respond or isn't not worth it cuz she wont be back for months.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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milrenkb

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Just say something along the lines of have a good one maybe I'll see you when you come back. However it might not be the best idea to pursue her imo. You'd be better off lookiing for someone else. Seems like it could work if she was staying around but unfortunatly thats not the case. best of luck
 

sexy_kuta

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well if shes going away and u got 4 days.. i'd say give'r! because shes nothing to you, ur just gonna next her either way so take this into consideration.

experiement.. be like i wanna give u a present before u leave then take her to ur house.. give her a few massives.. some kino ****.. make her wet then give'r!

but if u screw up then who gives a ****. shes in france! and u aint gonna talk to her again, aint like u gonna marry the girl!

i wouldnt let this sisutation go to waste IMO,
 
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