"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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question for women and older men: what do females think about when they masturbate?

DJVladdy

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When chicks spend quality time with their vibrators and dildos - what goes on in their mind exactly? Cuz that's what they really desire.

Is it being taken advantage of and dominated like a fvck doll - tell me if I'm not right? And do they imagine what the man looks like or do they just care about the way he would be treating them/making them feel?

Let me know.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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There are books about women's fantasies. Nancy Friday I believe is one such author. It is very likely that published articles on the subject have also appeard in professional journals.
 

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From what I've learned, mostly it is about an actual person making love to her, OR simply experiencing the lovemaking, not necessarily with a certain 'man' in mind. So, it can be someone specific, or simply the act itself.
 
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