Question for the more "experienced" DJ's..

[foxhound87]

Hey lad's,

First off this may seem like a bit of a stupid question, I get plenty of action from the ladies however I seem to always "want what I can't have!" Ive been dating a girl for a month, here's the messed up part...I didn't have sex with her, we fooled around and did everything else but sex. This drove me absolutely crazy!! Now I seem to have lost my cool and found myself calling her twice a day to which she doesn't answer, texting and getting no replies. I even passed up an opportunity for a threesome the other night for a chance to be with this girl Her friends tell me that she's trying to "Keep my on my toes" what the hell does that mean? BTW they all know about my lady killing ways. (Have a bit of a reputation...lol) From now on I'm not going to contact her, she can contact me...Is this the right attitude to have? I can easily go out and **** a new girl every night, the sad thing is that I don't want to I think she has me wrapped around her little finger...

 

[Last Man Standing]

Her friends tell me that she's trying to "Keep my on my toes" what the hell does that mean?

It means that she is controlling you!!! This is the unnatural order of things!!!

 

[MooseGod]

Sounds like she is on to you...not necessarily a bad thing in all cases. From inference it sounds like she actually wants a meaningful relationship, and to do this she's cutting you off sexually so that she is somehow "different" from other girls that you hump and dump.

If she's a catch, play along with it. Good things sometimes come to those who wait. But if you're looking for a lay, or to spin plates, maybe she's not the right type to get caught up with...I've encountered this type before. There are a lot of girls that don't like playing second fiddle.

 

[Last Man Standing]

MooseGod, your take makes sense IF, If she was a virgin - she appears not to be! So my take seems to be correct!

 

[Dilberto]

Let me tell you something; women want sex MORE than we do. The only thing that holds them back.....is being labeled the infamous $lut. So, in every effort to avoid that stereotype....they will give a man THREE chances to get some. And BELIEVE ME.....they are keeping close count! Years ago- I did an experiment on a few women who ride public transportation(SF Bay Area BART). I started gaming them to the point they really got interested in me. I got phone numbers, the right body language(if they ever TOUCH you....that is your go-ahead), and eye contact, etc. I didn't call one of them- and she totally ignored me, the next time I saw her. Another one, made excuses about her busy schedule. When I finally tried to call them.....it was too late. I couldn't believe I deliberately BLEW IT with them.

Remember....THREE CHANCES......then they move-on.

 

[foxhound87]

all interesting points guys, her friends tell me that she's "In relationships mode" I think I'm going to cut contact with her and make her go crazy with the whole "He wouldn't stop contacting me now he won't contact me at all" phase, it seems to be the only way. Hahaha I guess I just love a good challenge instead of an easy girl that puts out on the first night.

 

[MooseGod]

MooseGod, your take makes sense IF, If she was a virgin - she appears not to be! So my take seems to be correct!

She doesn't necessarily have to be a virgin... I'm picturing a mature "good girl" type here...

 

[MacDiddy]

BTW they all know about my lady killing ways. (Have a bit of a reputation...lol) From now on I'm not going to contact her, she can contact me...Is this the right attitude to have?.

I think you have to take one good look at yourself. you can't claim to be a ladies man if you can't control oneitis.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

It means that she is controlling you!!! This is the unnatural order of things!!!

Is it truly her that is in control or his need of sex from her?

 

[Don Juanabbe]

If you were banging some other broad(s) you really wouldn't be giving a shyt about this would you? .....and you'd be in the driver's seat. She's slowly making you take your hands off the wheel.

 

[foxhound87]

I am seeing other girls right now, ones just about to come over and have a bottle of wine with me (Met her last night, haha) You can call it oneitis if you want it's just that I always want what I can't have..it's more of a challenge in a way. Btw I'm living in a small city where it seems everyone knows someone who knows someone, and I'm the only Aussie guy working in this city so the ladies are all on to me. I cut off contact with her for a day and what do you know I start getting texts at midnight saying "Happy haloween" and what not but I did the right thing and ignored them completely, giving her a taste of her own medicine. Women, you treat them like dirt and they treat you like a king. You treat them like a princess and they treat you like a pauper. :nono:

 

[Last Man Standing]

Is it truly her that is in control or his need of sex from her?

Yes, good point! It is because today men chase pvssy instead of the woman that they lose control!! If men were chasing women (as oppose to the stank-hole) then they will always be in control, as designed and intended!!