"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Question for the FEMALE posters here

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I have a different question............why are you girls on this site in the first place? What could you possibly be getting out of this website that is making your life "more productive" in any shape or form?

Not to say all of the female posters are crap, but what I do see is a lot of female posters on here coming against many of the major Truth Teller/Red Pill Posters to seek to get them banned behind the scenes. These certain female posters are even buddy buddy with just about every Moderator on here, just READY to PM her favorite Moderator about "banning Tenacity because Tenacity said some naughty, naughty words".

In my opinion, a chick being an active member of The Manosphere is like a Gay guy being an active subscriber to Playboy magazine. I could understand SCROLLING through every now and again, but to be an active subscriber? On a recurring daily basis? Makes no sense whatsoever.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I guess because it's mainly guys here looking for advice?

But I do actually have a question you can maybe help with:

Thanksgiving weekend (Canadian thanksgiving) my cousin got into an argument with her boyfriend and he walked away. She was about to follow him and I told her to leave him to cool off. She got mad at me for that. I explained that maybe he needed some space because it was getting too heated and to just give him that. Another guy there agreed with me and this other guy said no she should go to him and sort it out.

It was a dumb argument about something that happened at his work, nothing serious.

Was I wrong to tell her to give him some space?
No you weren't wrong at all. Tell her to read "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus". Men go to their cave(walk off) to reflect/analyze/make sense of a situation then reappear when they feel comfortable talking about the issue in a rational manner with significant other. Women call up their bitchy girlfriends and have an emotionally fueled & irrational bash session under the influence of cheap wine while telling lies to each other! :)
 
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No you weren't wrong at all. Tell her to read "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus". Men go to their cave(walk off) to reflect/analyze/make sense of a situation then reappear when they feel comfortable talking about the issue in a rational manner with significant other. Women call up their bitchy girlfriends and have an emotionally fueled & irrational bash session under the influence of cheap wine! :)
The fact is.. Men and women are totally different

https://handwritingtech.files.wordpress.com/2013/04/mens-from-mars-and-women-from-venus.pdf
 

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BeExcellent and LiveYourDream stand out as two that are here to learn. Also, they contribute some solid material. They are both thinkers!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I have a different question............why are you girls on this site in the first place? What could you possibly be getting out of this website that is making your life "more productive" in any shape or form?
I read tons of psychology-- dating, personality, business, criminal. that reminds me that I want to get "lessons learned from the bad, the mad and the sad" it's about hostage negotiation. does this make me more productive? no. it's just interesting to me.

as far as the manosphere.... it's good to read that perspective. makes me sad though that "his needs, her needs" is not mentioned. it's such a great book by willard harley with practical advice. if manosphere experts don't like it, then say why. experts should be more well read imo.

edit: harley's work was originally published in 1986, so before bloggers.
 
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