"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Alpheta

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if you've hurt your girl to the point where shes 'given up' what do you do? I mean women are emotional, they change directions like the wind. So surely its just temporary?Therefore when a man chases her and is apologetic it turns her off even more, no?

Its clear that when a man chases a woman when hes hurt her to fix things and apologieses she despises him more. IN this case, should you just let it be and go silent until she returns, even though its your fault?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yes. Deep down women love a-holes. Say you are sorry once. If she can't get over it then she can't. Acting weak and smothering her with apologies will only drive her into the arms of some other dude and she will blame everything on you anyways.
 
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Mostly they are turned off by apologies because they're shallow. When I apologize I do it once and I sincierely mean it if I do. Make it your last word and disappear off the face of the earth if they don't accept it.

They'll either not give a fvck or they'll burn as they remember you last words and maybe give it another chance.
 
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