"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Question for the DJ's

el hombre 44

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I'm beginning to get out more and get more social, but i got a question for you guys. When you go to the movies with a girl or some friends, how do u guys usually go, assuming that everyone is under 18 and cannot drive. Do you guys get rides, or share them? How do u get from Home to the place you wanna go (ie movies, football game, pool). Or do u just meet up at a certain place at a certain time? What are your thoughts. I want to start hangin out more, but I need this question answered. Thankee.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Damian

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omigod...this is the most AFC question i've ever heard.

Go talk with your friends and propose a plan...just choose something.

-Damian
 
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