"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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happyendings

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OK. Im sort of in a jam here with Myself. I got this girl I met a few days ago we went out and Im not really interested in her as I thought I would be. I felt there would be some sort of connection since shes hot lol. She wants a relationship and I do not want one and with the info I provided Im not really interested in her. The problem lies that I would like to bone her a few times before leaving her but the thing is I just cant stand hanging out with her. So my question to you guys would you torture yourself for a good bang? Im leaning towards no, but would like to hear what you guys think or would do.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Recently I've been dealing with the same as you. It's pretty boring to go out with boring girls.
So I started seeing exactly how little I could do before going back to her place.
I don't care about her long term, so I just "test" and see what I can get away with. I think it's fun.
You might be surprised.
 

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would you be interested in her at 2am when you're drunk and horny?
 

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dont socialise then

Invite her over, bang, send her home.
 

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hellno, tell me about it. I think if I were to hang out with ben stein I would have been more entertained. Plates, she would def be more entertaining at 2am, I do not know if I can hang out with her until 1:59 I would be tempted to talk to other girls. Purefilth, It's hard because she wants a relationship after we hung out only once lol. Shes only boring because she talks nonstop like never pauses, Im just sitting there nodding my head and saying oh yeah! I had to cut her off once and just speak to a friend on the phone for like 10 minutes. She didnt even ask who was it or anything she just kept babbling again.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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happyendings said:
hellno, tell me about it. I think if I were to hang out with ben stein I would have been more entertained. Plates, she would def be more entertaining at 2am, I do not know if I can hang out with her until 1:59 I would be tempted to talk to other girls. Purefilth, It's hard because she wants a relationship after we hung out only once lol. Shes only boring because she talks nonstop like never pauses, Im just sitting there nodding my head and saying oh yeah! I had to cut her off once and just speak to a friend on the phone for like 10 minutes. She didnt even ask who was it or anything she just kept babbling again.
play on that then.

If she wants a relationship, you should be able to lead her and bang her and have her as a servant all with the carrot hanging there in front of her
just dont say the magic words that she wanna hear, and youll be good :D


Maybe thats too heartless for you?

If so, then youy would want to reconsider this game and go wife hunting or smth....:D
 

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happyendings said:
hellno, tell me about it. I think if I were to hang out with ben stein I would have been more entertained. Plates, she would def be more entertaining at 2am, I do not know if I can hang out with her until 1:59 I would be tempted to talk to other girls. Purefilth, It's hard because she wants a relationship after we hung out only once lol. Shes only boring because she talks nonstop like never pauses, Im just sitting there nodding my head and saying oh yeah! I had to cut her off once and just speak to a friend on the phone for like 10 minutes. She didnt even ask who was it or anything she just kept babbling again.
I had a plate once that initially annoyed the sh!t out of me, she was hot though and DTF. Eventually though, once she got comfortable with me, she settled down. Sometimes girls just talk because they're nervous or don't know what else to do.
 

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When I said she wanted to go out as bf and gf, she wants to take things slow and Im not really interested in playing the waiting game. I would play the waiting game if she was actually fun to hang out with. Well thanks for the advice guys, I ignored all her calls and texts time to move on.
 
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