"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Question for Pook on Law

Joined
Jan 11, 2005
Messages
90
Reaction score
1
Age
42
Location
Parts Unknown
Hey pook, I have read your stuff alot and I am really benefiting from the knowledge I attained from you.

I know youre pretty hollywood on this board and you cant reply to much but I was wondering if it would be at all possible for you to give me your thoughts on law school and being a lawyer. I have applied all your priniciples to becoming one.

I ask you this because I respect your opinion and it seems that your personality fits that role like a glove yet you have chosen not to pursue it(from what i gather from your previous posts).

Thanks in advance.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
Eh, it could have been a question about window treatments...
 

sifer

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 5, 2005
Messages
414
Reaction score
1
Originally posted by Interpol
Wait, is Pook a lawyer, or did you just randomly decide to ask his opinion on it?
Pook majored in law.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Sexual

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 13, 2004
Messages
729
Reaction score
4
I dunno dewd Pook hasn't checked the boards in a loooong time. I think you'd be better off calling a local successful lawyer for inspiration, I don't even think you can message Pook.
 

Vincent

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2002
Messages
3,595
Reaction score
5
Age
40
Edit: :) hehe woops
 
Last edited:

Lost In Translation

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 30, 2004
Messages
1,385
Reaction score
11
Location
Australia
Vincent please clean out your mailbox and stop pretending you get so much fan-mail you can't be contacted other than by carrier pigeon :)

you are a MOD !

say it with pride !

I AM A MOD ON SOSUAVE !

I WILL CLEAN OUT MY MAILBOX TWICE A WEEK !


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Vincent

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2002
Messages
3,595
Reaction score
5
Age
40
Well slap my ass and call me ginger, he is back, but he did come back yesterday so I can't be accountable for everything that goes on here.

Originally posted by Lost In Translation
Vincent please clean out your mailbox and stop pretending you get so much fan-mail you can't be contacted other than by carrier pigeon :)
Sooo sorry. I keep some PM's for record and I wasn't keeping tabs. I cleared up space. So those 2 people who sent me PM's can resend them :)
 
Top