Question for Penkitten or other Female Posters

[penkitten]

mental, maybe the girl you are referring to has issues that make her want a guy that gets drunk and vomits on people. perhaps she can not handle a stable guy who does not cause scenes or creates drama.

2 guys could be identical twins, and women will find one more attractive than the other based on their personalities and the personalities of the women who they meet.

 

[ketostix]

mental, maybe the girl you are referring to has issues that make her want a guy that gets drunk and vomits on people. perhaps she can not handle a stable guy who does not cause scenes or creates drama.

2 guys could be identical twins, and women will find one more attractive than the other based on their personalities and the personalities of the women who they meet.

That's not what he said or even how women and their so-called "intuition" works. He basically explained that girls gave him a much more negative reaction or interpretation for the same positive traits and overlooked the other guys blatanly negative ones. All based on their attractiveness level to the guy.

It's bad enough women are superficial and they can't admit it. They demonize a man, based on physical attractiveness, to mask over their superficiality. At least if men think a womans ugly we don't demonize every good thing about her and try to hurt her self esteem just to mask the real reason, that we aren't physically attracted to her.

 

[Mental]

mental, maybe the girl you are referring to has issues that make her want a guy that gets drunk and vomits on people. perhaps she can not handle a stable guy who does not cause scenes or creates drama.

2 guys could be identical twins, and women will find one more attractive than the other based on their personalities and the personalities of the women who they meet.

GIRLS. Plural. And "Girl" is right. These females were old enough phyisically to be women... and they should have been fairly mature. But based on how they acted, and their desire to date guys like that, they showed a real lack of maturity. Which can be a quick turn off, I will admit.

But being interested in the women (or uninterested) wasn't the point I was trying to make. The point was that nearly every woman chased after the guy, and considered him a great man, as opposed to me.

I could give some kid CPR to save his or her life, I'd be considered a sick pervert pedophile who "made out with some kid." If this guy did CPR, he'd be a hero.

Ketostix pretty much hit the nail on the head.

 

[CanuckinSK]

Hmm, some very interesting perspectives. It sounds like women are more likely to make snap judgements about a guy based on intuition.

I think in large part it just depends on the attitude that the male projects. As an example, a few years ago I used to frequent a corner store quite often. At the time, I was going through some problems, and exhibited generally VERY anti-social behavior. I'm not a good actor; when I'm miserable, it shows.

One time after walking away from the counter, I heard the clerk say to her co-worker, that there's that creepy guy again. Ouch... Well, guess I deserved that, I was pretty rude.

Here's the ironic part. A couple of years later, and I put up my profile on an on-line dating site. Posted a couple of pics where I'm smiling and happy. I check my 'Eye Contacts', and here's this chick from the corner store sending me an EC with a heart attached!

I think it's safe to say 'creepiness' is just a state of mind and behaviour, that most people can change.

 

[Master Bates]

There's a lot of truth in here. I'm reminded of the studies where women were shown pictures/drawings of various men of different physical attractiveness and height, and they would make judgments about the guys' character, who's more likely to be a child molester, etc, based on stuff like who's shorter. Really makes you realize how full of shiit women are when they try to pass themselves off as less superficial and shallow than men.