Question for my suave mind! ex tells off new girl.

[the big bleasy]

Okay so this is my first post ive never signed up to now because over the years ive found my self to be some what of a natural.

And i have found my self in almost practically every situation, what i realized the more ive focused more on my self and my work girls just become so freaking easy its kinda insane.

BUT I HAVE A SITUATION I HAVEN'T RAN ACROSS YET:

Background of New girl: she approached me cause she thought i was attractive.. we ended up exchanging numbers and she came on strong in beginning but cause of my dedication to work i always vanish on her, but she always ends up texting me when i vanish for a long period of time. Then we both reunite and try to talk but then i kinda vanish again! Ive always been willing to meet up again just because i do have interest in her but at same time i wont sacrifice my work just for her. Whats strange is ive dated girls way prettier but by no means is she not pretty but i was actually more attracted to her in general vs her looks.

Well we started to reunite and actually started talking and seeing each other more often and started to see where things were going. Couple times i tried to get intimate she hesitates and said in a way im not sure of your intentions or im just waiting for you to disappear again like you always do. I just played it cool and respected what she thought and just showed her well hey lets just keep on having a good time and we still kept hanging out. During this time of hanging out shes asked well do i talk to other girls routine, implying she wants to be the only girl and i say of course i do im not gona lie yes i talk to other girls.

Well all was good, her trust for me was starting to come back then my crazy ex that is litterally a 9 and she had use to model kept asking to see me so i agreed well my ex goes through my phone sees pictures of me and this new girl hanging out my ex freaks out saves this new girls number..and decides to blow up this girl and talk smack about her and show her pictures of me and my ex all happy like were together. hahah its kinda funny but belive it or not this kinda thang with my exs happens all the time. Its the opposite for me girls go crazy and not me lol. I always tell my guy friends,, the hottest girls are the easiest to bang, there the easiest to play mind games and there the sluttiest in bed hahaha.

Well this new girl told me i cant believe this, this is crazy i didnt think you would be like this or do this. I told her listen you know im interested in you and i told you i talk to other women so i didnt lie to you.

Since this situation hasnt happen to me i didnt know if i approached it right because the girl hasnt responded since my last text but i told her dont be mad i never lied about other women and you know im interested in you. She said well im not sure exactly what to say to you just yet. Im upset. I said come on dont be like this, then she goes well how about u just disappear like you always do: Then i tried to lightly end it with i dont want to disappear i want to see you but she hasnt responded back.

The thing is i am interested in this girl , i know she is too but she has severe trust issues at this point with me and it doesnt help that she knows that this other girl is way prettier so it could put self doubt in her and if she does come back she might never have trust anything with me . She hasnt responded back so at this point i have no clue what to do. should i try to reconnect with her or wait for her to text me... I dont want to feel im bothering her but because of her trust issues idk if i should to give her reassurance.

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

Okay so this is my first post ive never signed up to now because over the years ive found my self to be some what of a natural.

And i have found my self in almost practically every situation, what i realized the more ive focused more on my self and my work girls just become so freaking easy its kinda insane.

BUT I HAVE A SITUATION I HAVEN'T RAN ACROSS YET:

Background of New girl: she approached me cause she thought i was attractive.. we ended up exchanging numbers and she came on strong in beginning but cause of my dedication to work i always vanish on her, but she always ends up texting me when i vanish for a long period of time. Then we both reunite and try to talk but then i kinda vanish again! Ive always been willing to meet up again just because i do have interest in her but at same time i wont sacrifice my work just for her. Whats strange is ive dated girls way prettier but by no means is she not pretty but i was actually more attracted to her in general vs her looks.

Well we started to reunite and actually started talking and seeing each other more often and started to see where things were going. Couple times i tried to get intimate she hesitates and said in a way im not sure of your intentions or im just waiting for you to disappear again like you always do. I just played it cool and respected what she thought and just showed her well hey lets just keep on having a good time and we still kept hanging out. During this time of hanging out shes asked well do i talk to other girls routine, implying she wants to be the only girl and i say of course i do im not gona lie yes i talk to other girls.

Well all was good, her trust for me was starting to come back then my crazy ex that is litterally a 9 and she had use to model kept asking to see me so i agreed well my ex goes through my phone sees pictures of me and this new girl hanging out my ex freaks out saves this new girls number..and decides to blow up this girl and talk smack about her and show her pictures of me and my ex all happy like were together. hahah its kinda funny but belive it or not this kinda thang with my exs happens all the time. Its the opposite for me girls go crazy and not me lol. I always tell my guy friends,, the hottest girls are the easiest to bang, there the easiest to play mind games and there the sluttiest in bed hahaha.

Well this new girl told me i cant believe this, this is crazy i didnt think you would be like this or do this. I told her listen you know im interested in you and i told you i talk to other women so i didnt lie to you.

Since this situation hasnt happen to me i didnt know if i approached it right because the girl hasnt responded since my last text but i told her dont be mad i never lied about other women and you know im interested in you. She said well im not sure exactly what to say to you just yet. Im upset. I said come on dont be like this, then she goes well how about u just disappear like you always do: Then i tried to lightly end it with i dont want to disappear i want to see you but she hasnt responded back.

The thing is i am interested in this girl , i know she is too but she has severe trust issues at this point with me and it doesnt help that she knows that this other girl is way prettier so it could put self doubt in her and if she does come back she might never have trust anything with me . She hasnt responded back so at this point i have no clue what to do. should i try to reconnect with her or wait for her to text me... I dont want to feel im bothering her but because of her trust issues idk if i should to give her reassurance.

It sounds like with the other babes you didn't overanalyze it and it flowed naturally and this one you basically put on a pedestal.

I wouldn't worry about it. Just tell her that was one of your old females and the contact shouldn't have happened. That you are into her and that's all that matters.

Tell her something negative about the other babe, perhaps she was a crappy relation partner and you moved on.

 

[the big bleasy]

But than i have a theory maybe i should make it known even more that i still talk to this hotter girl because if her interest level was at a extreme high she would be trying to fight for me right away.... So idk.. i just want to get other peoples input out there.

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

But than i have a theory maybe i should make it known even more that i still talk to this hotter girl because if her interest level was at a extreme high she would be trying to fight for me right away.... So idk.. i just want to get other peoples input out there.

Gotcha. If her interest level was high enough she would've marked her territory. She would have boned the $hit out of you and done things she normally doesn't do. Or she could've gotten real mad for a while, but still they will claim what they think is theirs.

 

[the big bleasy]

Gotcha. If her interest level was high enough she would've marked her territory. She would have boned the $hit out of you and done things she normally doesn't do. Or she could've gotten real mad for a while, but still they will claim what they think is theirs.

So what do you think i should do in this situation...If she is mad as hell should i wait to see if she contacts me. I already told her how i thought about her so i feel i shouldnt have to tell her more than once.

 

[the big bleasy]

But since i told her that ive heard no response except well why dont you disappear again like you always do.