"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The other day I replied to a post and I put in the word ******** woman ese.
Its got xxxx ed out as an expletive. Surely its part of our understanding of women.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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there it is again *****ed out. Why would you get of a word like woman ese??? Whats next? AFC, DJ??
 
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A certain writer of how-to-get-women material threatened to sue sosuave because he claimed that he was the first in the industry to use that word and was thus entitled to copyright protection, and therefore no one else could use that word without paying him money.

It is a tenuous legal argument at best, because copyright law only protects creative expressions, and should not be applicable to the use of terms as generic as "w0manese." I think the guy would lose if he did sue. However, intellectual property law is usually determined in practice by whoever can get a lawyer to send a nasty and threatening letter. The other side always caves to the demand, because it is much cheaper and easier than paying lawyers to fight about it in court.
 
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Bible_Belt said:
A certain writer of how-to-get-women material threatened to sue sosuave because he claimed that he was the first in the industry to use that word and was thus entitled to copyright protection, and therefore no one else could use that word without paying him money.

It is a tenuous legal argument at best, because copyright law only protects creative expressions, and should not be applicable to the use of terms as generic as "w0manese." I think the guy would lose if he did sue. However, intellectual property law is usually determined in practice by whoever can get a lawyer to send a nasty and threatening letter. The other side always caves to the demand, because it is much cheaper and easier than paying lawyers to fight about it in court.
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Thanks for that, I'm actually relieved, for a minute I thought so suave had become politically correct.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I submit we change it to "womaneze".

I want to see if that goes through.

Edit: Yup, went through. From now on instead of "********" it's going to be "womaneze".
 
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