"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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question for mature dj's on marriage

penkitten

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Originally posted by crowes22
PK, I didn't even know you had posted anything in tips til you replied here, I sware. I just don't go over there much. I did read your tip after you replied here, I know it's about me, that's OK. .

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--Crowes
actually it was about a guy at work named bob who complained 24 /7

i thought it would be useful to let others know the whiney attitude 24/7 doesnt get you anywhere.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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crowes22

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Originally posted by penkitten
actually it was about a guy at work named bob who complained 24 /7

i thought it would be useful to let others know the whiney attitude 24/7 doesnt get you anywhere.
OK, cool, so where does the submissive/supplicating approach land Bob? Bob is a figment of your imagination. There is no Bob. You simply wish I were Bob, a nice guy who wines, I'm not though.

It lands him w/ his dyck in his hand, does it not? If there were a Bob. He becomes a beggar for puzzy, which is pathetic, b/c puzzy is as easy to get as fuel is at a gas station. Please stop polluting these young guys minds.

Take it from me fellas, learn from my mistakes.

--Crowes
 

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Originally posted by crowes22
OK, cool, so where does the submissive/supplicating approach land Bob? Bob is a figment of your imagination. There is no Bob. You simply wish I were Bob, a nice guy who wines, I'm not though.

It lands him w/ his dyck in his hand, does it not? If there were a Bob. He becomes a beggar for puzzy, which is pathetic, b/c puzzy is as easy to get as fuel is at a gas station. Please stop polluting these young guys minds.

Take it from me fellas, learn from my mistakes.

--Crowes
actually to sum it up , he is no longer employed any longer and he and his wife fight all the time. (which might be why he was always a whiner and complained so much)

i dont pollute , thats your job.
 

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if you must consider marriage (comming from a guy married 16 yrs and divorced 2)........ask yourself these 3 questions.............


do you want to be more like the other person? and would you like your kids to be like them?


Would you like this person as they are today, 10yrs, 20 yrs from now?? (people dont change much....never marry potential)


Do you share the same life goal's and did you come up with them indepentenly of each other?

If you can answer yes to these, your chances are decent you might not kill each other, but, no guarantees, they are still women.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Swampwiz, no offence but you seem to be living in fantasyland. Good luck with that!

Read the thread from Trucker about his hoe wife and then re-post.

Dietzcoi
 

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Re: Benefits of marriage

Originally posted by swampwiz
You are a partnership. That's part of marriage.
This is exactly how women think. And that is the way they want you to think. swampiz, are you a woman?

You toss divorce around like it is such an easy fix, and it is, for the woman. For men it is total destruction. Women LOVE divorce, despite what they say, and why wouldn't they? They'll get the gold mine and you'll get the shaft.

I just watched 2 of my good friends hand their balls over to women at these things called weddings, truly pathetic. I just don't understand why men want to do this. And every single girl there was dying to do what? Get married. I had to beat these women back. Amazing.

Think about it guys, if women are so fvcking eager to marry, and they are, what is the reason? If one party is incredibly eager, does it not reason that it is because the arrangement (marriage) is totally to their advantage? If it was a mutually beneficial institution both parties would be eager to enter it. Right?

I had another friend from high school that got married at like 22 years old. I hadn't seen him in a few years and asked him, "What the hell made you do it?" Him: "I was lonely".

Lonely isn't even in my vocabulary. Even when I am alone, I'm not lonely.
 

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Re: Re: Benefits of marriage

Originally posted by crowes22


Think about it guys, if women are so fvcking eager to marry, and they are, what is the reason? If one party is incredibly eager, does it not reason that it is because the arrangement (marriage) is totally to their advantage? If it was a mutually beneficial institution both parties would be eager to enter it. Right?

Not a truer word spoken.

And I agree swampwiz sounds like a woman . His posts reek of removing the importance from yourself and placing it onto a woman. This is extremely misleading and bad advice and an echo to the old ways, the disgustingly supplicatory and defeatist mindset that most men here just escaped from or are trying to escape from.
 

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Re: Re: Re: Benefits of marriage

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Not a truer word spoken.

And I agree swampwiz sounds like a woman . His posts reek of removing the importance from yourself and placing it onto a woman. This is extremely misleading and bad advice and an echo to the old ways, the disgustingly supplicatory and defeatist mindset that most men here just escaped from or are trying to escape from.
Exactly. Well said. It's nice to see there are others here that respect themself and realize kissing a woman's a$$ is absurd. Not only that, but it will get you nowhere. But you know Tittis I have noticed something in my recent dealings w/ women.

When the women get to the age where they want to marry (mid 20's), they immediately test you to see how much they can control you. So I guess at this point you have to kiss their a$$/be controlled if you want a chance w/ them. I'm seeing this as a test to see if you are hubby material or not. I also see this as a prediction of the future w/ her. A future of being her SLAVE. And I have to support this Slave/Master relationship financially.
 

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Re: Financial repercussions of marriage & divorce

Originally posted by swampwiz
With kids out of the equation, for a man with no assets (or at least no assets outside of his retirement account), and little saving on the outside, a divorce is basically painless. With kids thrown in, it becomes a different story, but if you knocked up a woman, you'd be in exactly the same tough spot.

But that is the price to recombine DNA with that of a high value female. Think of the hippo (no, not the cow that winked at you last Saturday night.) The male hippo spends all his days jaw wrestling with other male hippos. If he wins, he gets to screw the female hippos. If he loses, he gets to lie on his fat ass with no hippo *****. (The jaw wrestling, BTW, is pretty rough and dangerous activity.)
http://home.indy.rr.com/thestreetman/bunny.jpg
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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