"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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speakeasy

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What would cause more damage, a punch to the face or an palm heel strike to the face?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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really it depends on the practitioner. It's not like an rpg where some skill will do 'more damage'. Both are potentially dangerous (knockouts) or useless.
 

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The palm has less chance of breaking when hitting the human body. Even on hard bone surfaces.
The knuckles of the hand in a fist are a bit more suspect.
Many MA train to use their fist only on softer body areas.
They both work. And ultimately your ability to generate power in that particular strike and which vital area of the human body is what makes the difference.
IOW, it's not an either/or question, one should train them both and be able to use them both.
 

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The force generated from the punch comes mostly from the form of the rest of your body away from the arm. If you do everything else right, you're going to hurt the other guy with either the palm strike or the punch. Most people who have trained have done so throwing mostly punches, though, and their form is probably going to be better doing that.
 

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A punch. The concentration of force is greater. The surface area is also rougher and the object "tighter."

Somebody above gave the reasoning for palm strikes though. If your fists aren't conditioned it's very easy to break a hand. I've boxed alot but times I've unfortunately gotten into a street fight I've messed my hands up alot. Hitting someone on the ground looks easy and fun in the UFC but it's easy to miss and hit nothing but 'crete.

If you ever find yourself in that situation hit them with palms. You may get made fun of by yourfriends but you can still palm strike them afterwards if you have to.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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