strong like bull
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 5, 2002
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ive been in a LTR with a great girl for over 2 years. we dated for a year, then lived together for a year. wanting to buy a house in the very near future, we opted to not renew the lease on the apartment. i moved in with a buddy of mine. her, with her dad being very ill decided to move back in with family, to help them out for a few months. we had the option of living together at either place, but thought itd be best for her to stay with family to save $$$ and help out.
after moving in with my buddy, my feelings of my gf started to shift. i have a real nice setup in the house.. and can smell a bit of the scent of freedom again. i still love her but lately more and more ive had thoughts of the crazy kind of fun i had in my single days.
the icing on the cake is also - although ive always had interactions with pretty girls, some hitting on me.. i would always turn them down and not cross certain lines. i recently met a girl who really intrigues me. to the point of getting the idea, "what would i do if i was single right now?" obviously i wouldnt cheat on my gf, but lately ive found myself in certain situatious where i'm sort of walking the line.
so, is this normal? would this happen to any guy who after living with gf for a year, was reminded of the bachelor life? i'm 24, willing to settle down if the time was right, but just want to be happy in life either way.
-SLB
after moving in with my buddy, my feelings of my gf started to shift. i have a real nice setup in the house.. and can smell a bit of the scent of freedom again. i still love her but lately more and more ive had thoughts of the crazy kind of fun i had in my single days.
the icing on the cake is also - although ive always had interactions with pretty girls, some hitting on me.. i would always turn them down and not cross certain lines. i recently met a girl who really intrigues me. to the point of getting the idea, "what would i do if i was single right now?" obviously i wouldnt cheat on my gf, but lately ive found myself in certain situatious where i'm sort of walking the line.
so, is this normal? would this happen to any guy who after living with gf for a year, was reminded of the bachelor life? i'm 24, willing to settle down if the time was right, but just want to be happy in life either way.
-SLB