“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Question for guys with imagination :)

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Very simple and plain question. I guess almost all of you were in situation when girl asks to do anything, and you say "Whats for that??" she's like "umm.. ehh... I don't know, what do ya want?? :)". And I was: "I'll say you tomorrow"... She - "Ok, I'll wait!"

Can you suggest something? We study in the same place, I know her for few days, but all is going ok.
I think it'd be cheesy to say "You'll go to a date for that with me!". ? Suggest me something funny/intersting if you can ;)

Thank you in advance!
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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jw...is english your first language? I ask b/c some of your syntax and usage is a little...unusual, lol. Not dissing you if english isn't your first, just curious.

As for your question...you could tell her that, as a price for you graciously offering to help her, she should show up at your place with a blindfold, wearing lots of leather...

Or you could tell her that she has to take you out somewhere.

I dunno...I'm not feeling too creative at the moment. And yeah, i agree it's be cheesy to tell her she has to take her on a date.

I guess the end goal is you need to have her do something where you can initiate kino and build her attraction for you.

Hope this helps- -E-Z
 

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Re-post that **** . IT doesn't make sense.
 

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:)

Originally posted by E-Z Rider
jw...is english your first language? I ask b/c some of your

I guess the end goal is you need to have her do something where you can initiate kino and build her attraction for you.

Hope this helps- -E-Z
Thanks for suggestions!

Yes, English isn't my first language ;).

The Realness: ok I'll try ;)

Girl says: "Can you do X and Y??"
I : "Hmm, I don't know, what do you suggest for me, for doing that XY??"
She: "Gee.. :) :rolleyes: I don't know, what do You want??"
I : "Hmm, OK, I'll tell you tomorrow!"
She : "Ok!"

Was that understandable enough?? :)

I know, that's a good chance to invite to the date or smth... I just need something funny/maybe ****y.. i dunno. I'll be very glad to hear your suggestions. :)
 

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My suggestion would be she has to cook you dinner for you to do what she wants. Then say, "and I'll bring the whipped cream and cherries for desert". There you go.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by echo1212
My suggestion would be she has to cook you dinner for you to do what she wants. Then say, "and I'll bring the whipped cream and cherries for desert". There you go.
Yeah, that'd be fine, just that girl is 18 y/o.. so she lives with her parents... I guess I just need some imaginative/funny way to ask her to a date.
 

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Well see when you say the cooking dinner line, you have to say it with a smile on your face and while laughing. I'm sure she wouldnt take you seriously, plus you'll at least start to initiate some form of sexual inuendo so she knows your not just looking to be "just friends". Trust me on this.

Then if she has any kind of positive response, which i'm sure she will if shes at all interested, just say "yeah, it might be cool to hang out someitme, whats your number and we'll get together". Simple as that my friend. Now go out and get some.
 

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Maybe you say "Howz about a bizzy bee in my trouser?"

then she say "What?"

you then say, "what what?"

then you get date

everybody happy

next: world peace
 

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Originally posted by Starman
Maybe you say "Howz about a bizzy bee in my trouser?"

then she say "What?"

you then say, "what what?"

then you get date

everybody happy

next: world peace
LOL :D
 

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Ask her to join you in some meditative activity at sun dawn. No more, no less. Not as in some sort of 'date'. You can always ask her for a date afterwards.

Sitting in a meditative pose facing the upcoming sun, eyes closed, for at least 5 minutes is fine, 10-20 min is great! (for me) Just keep at it as long as it feels beneficial. You can always go back another time. There are lots of possibilities for meditation, such as yoga or chi kung. I'll leave it to you to find something that suits you.

If you do choose to meditate at dawn, i'm sure you will be grateful.
 
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