JaegerPilot217
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Ya because I want to get constructive criticism, and I want to learn and get better as soon as possible since I'm not getting any youngerGotED? said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Question for guys with girlfriends
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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BE FVCKING GLAD she's making an effort to be sexy still. The worse is when they're in a relationship and stop caring about their appearance and start wearing sweatpants and sh!t. Who cares if she dresses hot? Show that sh!t off
Agreed. Sure it's probably overpriced but the man seems legit. Not all of these guys are snake oil salesmen. Learning from someone who knows what he's doing is always going to be faster than going at it alone. JaegerPilot you should start a journal, it could make for some interesting reading.
JaegerPilot217
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yup , David Wygant is having me and other clients who are involved in this coaching program, go out and approach women in different settings and use the video cameras on our cell phones to record our approaches, record the conversations, and we send them back to him for reviewJoeMarron said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
JaegerPilot217
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RSD(Real Social Dynamics) usually makes you pay for it, most things in life aren't freeJaylan said: