"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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JaegerPilot217

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GotED? said:
Damn dude, you shouldn't have to pay anyone to become a DJ.

As everything in life your abilities to overcome and achieve your aspirations fully on your own is an exhilarating experience, not to be decimated by paying anyone to help you get women.

Be well

Exodus
Ya because I want to get constructive criticism, and I want to learn and get better as soon as possible since I'm not getting any younger
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BE FVCKING GLAD she's making an effort to be sexy still. The worse is when they're in a relationship and stop caring about their appearance and start wearing sweatpants and sh!t. Who cares if she dresses hot? Show that sh!t off
 

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If you have the means to afford it and it's worth it to you to cut the learning curve, why not pay? I'm sure it's a lot easier to get 1-on-1 guidance from a pro than to deal with trolls posting to this forum (not that everyone is a troll, but some advice given here is pretty useless).
Agreed. Sure it's probably overpriced but the man seems legit. Not all of these guys are snake oil salesmen. Learning from someone who knows what he's doing is always going to be faster than going at it alone. JaegerPilot you should start a journal, it could make for some interesting reading.
 

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JoeMarron said:
Agreed. Sure it's probably overpriced but the man seems legit. Not all of these guys are snake oil salesmen. Learning from someone who knows what he's doing is always going to be faster than going at it alone. JaegerPilot you should start a journal, it could make for some interesting reading.
yup , David Wygant is having me and other clients who are involved in this coaching program, go out and approach women in different settings and use the video cameras on our cell phones to record our approaches, record the conversations, and we send them back to him for review
 

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JoeMarron said:
Agreed. Sure it's probably overpriced but the man seems legit. Not all of these guys are snake oil salesmen. Learning from someone who knows what he's doing is always going to be faster than going at it alone. JaegerPilot you should start a journal, it could make for some interesting reading.
In for a journal. All the good ones i've sub'd to have died or aren't updated as often as my mind would like. Make it happen, interested in the progress.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Paying for a "pro"? Lmao. Fvk that scammy sh!t. Just make friends, and take pointers from a natural. Heck, there are regional PUA chats, forums, apps where dudes meet up to sarge and help one another out.
 

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Jaylan said:
Paying for a "pro"? Lmao. Fvk that scammy sh!t. Just make friends, and take pointers from a natural. Heck, there are regional PUA chats, forums, apps where dudes meet up to sarge and help one another out.
RSD(Real Social Dynamics) usually makes you pay for it, most things in life aren't free
 
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