"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DJ Alejandro

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guyz, how's the best way to dump someone? i mean, ive been with this girl for nine months now. the sex is great. and all of that but she doesn't have a life. i mean, nothing goin on for her. doesn't have something to talk about even if i ask about her.

i mean, i always have to initiate things with her. i even said that she should try discovering a new side of her by wearing bandanas or getting a little sporty attitude there. juz for the energy! but she doesn't want to.

in short, she's getting BORING.

the worst thing is, she's not doin something 'wrong' to be a reason for a break-up. im hanging here.
 

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its never easy and she will be hurt

you cant always make everyone happy

but think about what you are doing before you do it

i see a lotta guys "dump" their G-Fs because they are bored and then weeks later to realize that they dont have much else workin for them so they regret doin what they have done
 

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think like this, Have something as backup before you break up otherwise you will be going without poon for awhile. You said it was great so imagine not having it for awhile. I did it and I hated myself because I didn't have a backup and she got with another guy and was getting on with him instead of me. Nothing I could do. I regretted it for a while. Consider everything about her before you break up. Some qualities are so hard to find again.
 

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sorry pla, but only the boring get bored, sure ts u that aint got the problem.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

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I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by drixsa
its never easy and she will be hurt

you cant always make everyone happy

but think about what you are doing before you do it

i see a lotta guys "dump" their G-Fs because they are bored and then weeks later to realize that they dont have much else workin for them so they regret doin what they have done
This doesn't happen to DJ's, and if it does then it wouldnt bother him anyway because there is something more important to him then girls.

There should be no doubt, you can get girls, your a DJ. Even if you don't, whats the problem?

sorry pla, but only the boring get bored, sure ts u that aint got the problem.
You have yourself mixed up here buddy, he's bored because his gf isnt interesting, how can he have a problem? Is he meant to lower his standards or something.

Just dump her mate, boring girls arent worthy of a DJ. ;)
 

drixsa

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Originally posted by Sammo
This doesn't happen to DJ's, and if it does then it wouldnt bother him anyway because there is something more important to him then girls.

even some of the best "DJs" can get upset after a hard break up

sometimes you cant realize that u had a good thing until it is gone
 

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yeah. i agree. maybe ill just hang around a little longer. if she doesn't improve...... NEXT!!!!
 
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