"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Question for DJs aged 35+

Wyldfire

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Originally posted by DAMY46:
Wyldfire
What kind of business are you starting?

BTW, I love dating 'older' women!

Damy
It's a home party business. I'm not usually geared towards this kind of thing, but the products are very nice, reasonably priced, and the company growth is phenomenal in only 5 years. The person I joined under cleared nearly $50,000 in her first year in an area smaller than I am in. Basically, I go to people's homes for a couple of hours, show the products, play games and collect money. I get a 40% discount on the products and only had to invest $150 to get started. I also get up to 10% profit on the sales of anyone I get to sign up beneath me. I haven't been doing much as of yet because I just got a huge tax refund back and I feel like being lazy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Chubbs, thanks for starting this thread! Market research helps refine one's approach and mindset.


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Originally posted by Gipper:
Basically, I look for a woman who is attractive (to me) and I don't want to eat a Glock after talking to her for 20 minutes.
Bhwwaaaahaaahaaaaa!

That's good stuf!

Mine...

"Really? That's facinating. Do you mind if I start my autopsy now? Pass me your steak knife will ya."

Maximus
 

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Age means nothing! I am 51, my player buddy is 61 and we pick up women of all ages including the 20's. If you've got the basic triggers of attraction down it works on all ages. I'm telling you it's so easy it ain't even fair.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Maximus:
Bhwwaaaahaaahaaaaa!

That's good stuf!

Mine...

"Really? That's facinating. Do you mind if I start my autopsy now? Pass me your steak knife will ya."

Maximus

That's excellent! Glad to see someone has MY warped sense of humor!

Gipper

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"There's nothing wrong with letting the girls know you're money, and that you want to party.
-Trent, from "Swingers"

Love is the self-delusion we manufacture to justify the trouble we take to have sex.
-Daniel S. Greenberg
 

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Old but interesting thread!

Stroke Artist Said "The best way one girl put it to me was that we become "2nd tier" prospects....we (30+) lack some sort of element of cool"
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Yes 30+ guys can be 2nd Tyre and can lack "some sort of element of cool"
However Age has nothing to do with this . It's the attitude and the mind set. Now you blame your age, when you were 17 you blamed your "Big Nose", when you were 24 you balmed your billy ¡Kthen your thin hair and now It's your age.

No it's not your age, and you will dicover it later.

Indeed you answered it your self when you said:
"one girl told me she looks at the hands (first thing to show age according to her), the style of your clothing, your hairstyle (old or new), your car keys (no joke), the way you walk (??) and the way you talk, and most importantly your bankroll (how its kept and its size)!"

So for girls there is something wrong with your hands, style, hairstyle, bankroll....
Just live the time and fix it!

You should ask yourself what i gained from this 30+ life that I lived ....life should have gave you much , if you believe in yourself girls will believe on you.
For me I wasn't into girls for the last 30 years! (I was a member of a religious group) I started after 30, and believe me young guys can't compete with me in this field.

Being a young manager with exceptional qualifications may have something to do with this. I also have an exceptional fit body.

I always feel that I am different, and people around me seems to agree, I am different in my clothes (Young Guys can't afford to get similar ļ), My body, my walk, my smile, and young girls seem to only like me :)
 
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