"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Question:Djing to teach a lesson.

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I have just begun to find my ways in DJing, and have found myself to be very successful.

There is a girl I have known for a year or two, and because of my physical and mental changes, she is interested in me. She wants a boyfriend, even though she has systematicly cheated on every boyfriend she has had. It is something she does.

Now what I am planning to do, is flex my game, get some play, get her into a 'relationship' that is in fact not real, and dump her hard. She doesnt know that I dont have any real interest in a GF/BF monogomist relationship, and havnt since my last serious GF over 8 months ago.

The first phase has begun, I can do heavy kino with her, and she does the same with me. I took her sunglasses today and she said if I did NOT give them back to her, she would kiss me. I didnt get a kiss, but still, heavy kino and conversations heavy with sexual undertones are commonplace.

I figure if I can get some play out of it, and teach her what it feels like to be cheated on, it is all good. What might happen, is if she doesnt fall hard into a relationship, we will be fvck buddies, which isnt a bad thing either. Which ever way I choose, I should have some fun doing it :D

Any thoughts on my current or future actions?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Heizen


She wants a boyfriend, even though she has systematicly cheated on every boyfriend she has had. It is something she does.
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You can do better than this, dude. F*ck her if you have to, but DON'T get into a relationship with this girl even for a short period of time, unless you really feel the need to get burnt. Your plans to 'dump her hard' might not turn out the way you expect.....IMO, it's best to just leave it alone :)

Also, check out this required reading:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16191
 
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haha, I thin kyou misunderstood something, I have no intention of going BF/GF with her. I'll treat her the same as the 3 other girls I have going right now, but from the looks of it she will be thinking it is a full on relationship.

Also, I am not digging up the past. I barley(sp?) talked to her before this point, but word seems to have gotten around that I am different and here she is. At the very least I could use to try to perfect a few techniques I havnt tried, kind of a throw away try if you will.

I still have time to evaluate what is happening and if I want to continue. That why I posted this question :)
 
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ah...the best laid plans of mice and men. you're being foolish and have learned very little.

tell me, if you actually have 3 other chicks going on, why bother with this ho? why bother at all?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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do it. I'll consider it avengement for the stupid hoes that have pissed me off. This little woman can be the psychic antenna for the culmulative anger of all men.


But be careful that you don't create a situation for yourself that is more taxing and complicated than you truly desire.
 
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Originally posted by TooColdUlrick
ah...the best laid plans of mice and men. you're being foolish and have learned very little.

tell me, if you actually have 3 other chicks going on, why bother with this ho? why bother at all?
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Because well, 4 is always better then 3 no?
 
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